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I have gone from younggrandma to just yg. Now,
I am using my real name.
I don't think anyone who knows me will have trouble figuring out who that is!

I have been gone a while dealing with things in my own life. I am back now to help once again. Do not expect answers from me that just tell you what you want to hear. Life is to short for nonsense. :)
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So here's the story...I really just don't know what to think of it all...we are both sophmores in college fyi.
After i broke up with my boyfriend of 6months..because it was a long distance relationship that really wasnt working out anymore...I started hanging out with this new guy. we were hanging out at least 4 nights a week plus seeing eachother & hanging out at parties on the weekend. when we hung out it was just watching movies sitting around..nothing fancy. every once in a while we messed around alittle bit..but not very much. most of the time it was just talking and cuddling..once in awhile we'd spend the night together. after about a month of this he took me to dinner on a friday night. we went to a school basketball game after dinner..saturday I went to his football game & we went out with a bunch of freinds that night. we spent the night together after that & went to lunch the next day. I was really busy on that monday so I didnt get a chance to talk to him..but then when i talked to him on tuesday he had a girlfriend....ummm? what happened? all of his freinds said that they hadnt even been talking and they were all really confused. they have been dating for about 2 weeks now and he continues to call me and text me saying how much he likes me and how much he misses me and how much of a mistake he made....i just dont know what to do now? i was really starting to fall for him and i really wish we could have kept hanging out..he keeps saying hes going to break up with his gf...that hes just waiting for her to give him a reason..idk help? (link)
The truth of the matter is this. He spent all that time with you. Got a few perks making out, then decided to go make some other girl his girlfriend.

Don't waste any more time with this guy. Having a girlfriend and getting a little action on the side is the oldest trick in the book. He is going to say ANYTHING to give you the impression you are the one for him. He's lying.

Get real. If you really like someone and want to be with them, you Do NOT wait for the current girlfriend to give you an "excuse" to break up with them. You just do it for you and the one you really care about.

What his friends know is not important. Friends have been known to lie too. The smartest thing you can do here is to forget this cheat. Do not talk to him, do not listen to his bullshit. He is
wanting to use you. He will hurt you. Move on before it gets even more complicated.

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