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Q: ok ok, i just got my period for the first time this morning. now what! how do i know when it will come back? should i start with pads or tampons (now i'm using pads)? and ahh just please help!

thank-you!

start off with pads.. if this is your first time ever then you might not have it for awhile. thats totally normal. start with pads then work your way to tampons!

Q: does any body know how to shrink pores on your face cuz mine r really really big. thanks

put a really hot wash cloth over your face after you wash it. It also helps shrink pimples to. Give it a few days but make sure you do it everynight!!-trix

Q: I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..

Boy I feel stupid :(

Have him use 1 finger.. and not so much pressure maybe his nails are to long-trix

Q: alright, my friend is gettin really paranoid. he keeps thinkin that there might be "side effects" from masturbation. he's 15 and he says he's like addicted to bangin himself. so are there any "side effects" from too much masturbation? if so, what are they?

thanks

No.. hes just growing up

Q: Okay i have this friend named mary, she is one of the popular people and she is so nice, but all my other friend think she is a hoe..but she is not...they say i will turn just liek her is we start being best friends? What should i do? HELP PLZ!
Ashley

Everybody should give everybody a chance. tell them that. Just be like dont judge her before you meet her. She isn't doing it to you so why do it to her?-trix

Q: ok ive done a hand job before but my friend keeps askin when is he gettin his and i keep tell him i dont kno and like i dont wanna come off as a ho doing that to someone im not with..is that hoeish ? i do have feelings for him though

Tell him you dont want to do that anymore. It would be different if you were going out with him and maybe you should point that out to him. If you think he may have feelings for him then you should let him know

Q: how do u 69 with someone?

umm im not going to put that in word for word. im sure your partner would know that. trust me. Anyways...

Q: Well to start off.. My mother left a week before Christmas and I miss her so much.. My dad is go crazy because she left all of us.. She don't call or even write to us. I need so help to know how to help my dad through all of this pain.. Thank you if you write back... I really do need as much help as I can get.... **** Thanks Heather****

You know this is a really hard situation and im sure you are hurting alot to! im so sorry! my friend had her mom walk out on her and her siblings to. Im sorry! Just be there for him and thats all you can really do and just talk about it.-trix

Q: Tomorrow i think me and my boyfriend are going to the movies for the first time...well we went once before a looong time ago but anyways...what should i do in the movie theater to "turn him on" ;)??? ive been treating him kinda shitty lately and i want to make it up to him. Thanks!

anything really. A guy is open for anything. Just lean in and give him a kiss-trix

Q: Make it short and sweet. Met the girl at the gym,talked for awhile. Gave me her number,then when I call it she tells me she's got a bf. I think it's a lie and she would really want me to rot in hell. What does anybody else think in here? Was she lying, or if she wasn't, why'd she waste my time in the first place? I'm an 18 year old guy. I want RussianMailman to answer my question,too. I need a good laugh.

She was maybe interested in being just friends. You cant always expect girls to want to be your girlfriend sorry.-trix

Q: Im a male. Theres a Girl I really like. I don't think theres a possibility that she likes me back. I don't want to do anything wrong to get her to like me. I dont even know how to act around her. Do you have any suggestions on how to get her to like me?

Well you just got to talk to her and be nice. -trix

Q: I have this guy friend who i never EVER thought as a boyfriend but i also have a boyfriend that i love very much well today my guy friend wrote me a note and gave it to me between classes it said " Would you go out wit me and if the answer is no keep it between us 2" I don no what to tell him and i need some help NOW!!!!

Yours truly, confused

Well I would just stick to being friends honestly. You have a boyfriend and you said so yoruself that you wouldnt ever be able to picture him being your boyfriend yourself. I would just let him down nicely and write him a note. Just say you would rather not and just stay friends. And that you will keep it between you 2!-trixx

Q: okay crazy hair day is friday and i dont kno wut to do i am a guy and my bangs are past my nose and my hair goes to the bottom of my neck and is about 5inches long wut shud i do with it besides spiking it?

I would cut it.. around to the length of your ears you can still keep the style.. but.. it'd be nice to see your lovely eyes!!

Q: Is masterbation a sin? Some people think it is, and some people think it's not. Some people think it is-- only under cirtain circumstances. Like if it's for lust, then yes it is, but if it's not for lust then it isn't..> Is it? Or isn't it?

I dont know weather it is. I know that its when you start growing older it is something that you do. Some people do and some people dont i really dont know why they would. Because its better then going out & having sex. -trixxy

Q: How can you advice me if i have a steady single boyfriend and still have a relationship with a married man. Please i need advice!

You shouldnt do that

Q: hey are there any minerals that keep the bodies fluids in balance?
thanks

yeah

Q: im doing 300-600 sit ups a day is this bad 4 me?thanx

nope

Q: what exactly is Mardi Gras? and how is it celebrated? I know its coming up (feb 8) so im cutious because i`ll be away vacationing and i was curious how i can party it up lol. So if you can tell me what it is and how u celelbrate it thanks

Its a spanish holiday. Thats all I know-trix

Q: Hey, does anyone know any websites that have step by step instructions that show you how to dance?

i dont know about websites. But I looked for you and this is what I got http://web.ask.com/web?q=dancing+instructions&qsrc=0&o=0 try there! Hope I helped-trix

Q: 14 female (sry if its confusing)

1)ex boyfriend now after 9 months
2)has a new girlfriend who i hate (not the issue)
3)somtimes we talk now.. he said that he misses me.. but he's like a lunitic and isnt good for me
4)i still love him, but he's not right for me at all.. all my friends hate him
5)today he told me to stop talking to him..(but i dno if he really means it cuz he still mite have feelings for me)
6) but he blocked me, and won't talk to me

Should i try to move on ?what do i do(i rate high)

yeah move on get away from him. He doesnt seem right for you anyways. You even think so for yourself. And lol that wasnt confusing. I followed thru very well-trixxy

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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