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more... 16 and ive never been kissed. Or lets change that..ive never "madeout" with anyone. And im talkin to a couple of guys and theyre askin me on dates n stuff and i wanna go but i know theyll make a move on me and then i wont kno what im doin! Im already behind..because im 16 and most ppl have madeout already. What do i do about this?

go there! this site explains EVERYTHING. go with the flow and it will be great. good luck.


I just started going out with this guy. He knows a ton of people and is always giving like 10 girls hugs left and right everyday. And sometimes he even kisses their heads/foreheads and tells him he loves them. I'm guessing he's just really, really good friends with these girls, but a lot of girls like him and he does this with so many. Is it wrong for me to get mad at him for this? I don't see anything wrong with hugs, but it just seems like hes all over some of them..and he does this right in front of me. I'm new to relationships, so I don't exactly know if this is considered acceptable?

No this really isnt acceptable! i dont mind my boyfriend talking to girls, etc.! because you cant be a controlling gf and not let him have any contact with the opposite sex (besides you)! and even hugging MIGHT be ok..i mean it depends on the person! i personally would be a little jealous! but then kissing is a def no!! even if its on the forhead! sit down and talk to him about this, but usually guys like this refuse to change! give it a shot though and tell him how youre feeling! if he dosnet stop then i would break up with him! but remember this is all up to you, if youre fine with his actions then theres no reason you should end it! good luck!! [♥]


ok so my schools homecoming is september 16 and i really want this guy to ask me!! he's never had a girlfriend and we're 15 and he doesn't even take girls to his sports banquet cause he's kinda shy around girls..haha so does anyone know any ways to hint that i wanna go 2 homecoming with him? thanx!

yeah, he dose seem pretty he needs a confident girl to approach him! this might be hard but just throw yourself out there and start talking about thing leads to another and he should take the hint and ask you! if not you can always rely on a close friend to help move him along ;D! best of luck!! [♥]


=/ I suck at reading guys' actions, so.....

1) He sits next to my best friend in my Social Studies Class. So one day before class, I went over to talk to her, and he jumped, yes JUMPED up and RAN, yes, SPRINTED across the room, and started talking to his friend. Matter of fact, he practically leaves everytime I come near. I'm not mean to him or anything, and we get along well (just got aquainted about 2 1/2 weeks ago)

2) When I come late into class, he stares. Like the other day, I came in late, and he looked at me for about 5 minutes while I was explaining to the teacher.

3) He'll only talk to me if I say something to him. I don't think this means anything--a lot of my friends say he does that anyways.

=/ And he has a girlfriend. Or should say "groupie". She's VERY obsessed with him. I think he just gave in, (they were friends) and was too nice to know.

What do you guys think?

its one of two things..he either has a HUGE crush on you, or the complete opposite! different guys react differnt ways to girls they like so I dont know exactly what hes thinking! i would just talk to him and ask him whats going on, do you like me, etc.! good luck!! [♥]


I have a crush on a boy. My friends tell me I should leave a rose in his locker. Do boys like stuff like that?

hmmm that might freak him out a just might come off too strong! but you know him better than me, so its really up to you! maybe instead of a rose try a note! or have a friend talk to him and find out if he likes you! good luck [♥]


i am in love with my boyfriend, like i don't want to be with any other guy but him. and i want to tell him i love him. but im scared he is going to get scared like last time it happened i told him i love you (he said it back but) then a week later he broke up wiht me. i want to say it so much since i mean it., but i don't want to lose him. it hurts not being able to tell him i love him, but i don't know if he really is in love with me too. and i want to know. he is the only guy i actually fell for like this, i am about to cry from writing this. i dont want to lose him when school starts but i don't want to talk to him about it cuz im scared what he is going to say. what should i do

if youre having such strong feelings for him, its not fair for you to keep them in! if you feel something you just have to come out and say it! as scary as it might be..and there is a chance he might not know how to react and this can hurt! but you never know until you try..and he might be feeling the exact same way!!! =D if not..well id say sit down and "evaluate" your relationship, like where its going etc.! good luck!!! [♥]


im 13 years old and i dont know if one of my closest friends likes me.
hes acting very weird all the time around me and i think he wa flurtting with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
what do i do?

do you like him?? well if you do then just flirt back! and see where things go..he might ask you out in the near future! if hes still sending you mixed signs i would talk to him or get a friend to ask him! good luck [♥]


ok sry this is so long but i need help

i went out with this one guy for like 2 years and he was my first kiss, first make out and everything and i broke it off with him about 2 months ago

well i have a new boyfriend now and im crazy about him but i still kinda have feelings for my ex-boyfriend i told my friends about it and they said it was normal to not forget ur first love they said what iwas feeling was just memories and

i dont have real feelings for him anymore??
r they right what do u guyz think???

i'll rate high!

Yes, Its normal to keep a LITTLE bit of feelings for your first true love! but if this goes on for a long time or if the feelings deepen..i think youll have to sit down and think about the situation! maybe you really do care alot about your ex and want to go out again? idk give it a couple of weeks! good luck!! [♥]


ok well heres my problem ok well i like this guy named *cameron ok well ive met him before and he was really cool and now hes in my homeroom hes soo cute hes a freaking hotty ok well today we were totally playing footsy and stuff we were totally flirting hes my buddy and i like him so much and at lunch i told him i was sitting with him he seemed excited and we were tlking and my friends came over when they saw me and they saw i was flirting when we went outside he asked me if i wanted a piggy back ride and i said no thanks shly and it was just great but my friend amanda was like do u like him i was like yeah and then she started asking me if i had his screenname i know hes not my boyfriend but he didnt even talk to her but should i be worried ? thanks
I'm a female and i'm 13

no you shouldnt be worried..she might be a little jealous that youre getting attention from a guy and she isnt! or it could mean nothing at all, maybe she just wanted his sn? you never know. if you are pretty close with her then she should know not to flirt with a guy you like and have told her you like!! if youre still a little jealous or concerned just set her down and ask her if she likes him! if she dose then thats still ok he obviously likes you more! so dont worry [♥]


Hey people i was wondering could everyone tell me what they think of a 15 year old going out with a 13 year old girl?

tell me ur honest opinions please

Theres definately nothing wrong with that combo! is the girl mature for her age? if so, thats even better! but either way its prefectly fine!! good luck [♥]


Me and my borfriend just broke up about 3 months ago. I know that it has been a long time since we broke up but I just now am getting over him. So' Ok it's over... What do I do next. I've been depressed ever since. How do I brighten up my spirits? Should I talk to him anymore or should I not? I still can't completely stop thinking about him.
Needs Cheering Up
Ps. im sorry its so long but ill rate on good answers.

have you talked to him sense youve broken up?? if you have and talking to him makes you sad or angry, then clearly the answer is no! you shouldnt talk to him if it makes you upset or if you think youll start getting feelings for him! but maybe you want to concider being friends now that both of you are ok with the situation! its always a good idea to stay friends after 2 ppl have broken up, but this dosnet mean its easy! sense youre completely over him then id say jump back into the dating scene! if you still need more time then thats fine too! dont worry about what youre "supposed" to do, just sit back and see where things go! maybe a new guy will come along ;D or maybe it will take sometime! either way good luck! [♥] hope i helped!!


hi my name is jess ive been going out with my boyfriend for days so far. But today when i was at my friends house a kid in her neighborhood said he was going out with this other girl to. How can i find out with out hurting our relationship if hes cheatin on me.
Ps. he does have a history of cheating when he was going out with my friends.
luv jess

is the person who told you hes dating someone else reliable?? can you trust her?? if you can then theres nothing left to do but ask your boyfriend! if its all a big missunderstanding im sure he'll think nothing of it and this wont hurt your relationship! however if its know what to do! dump him! good luck ♥


Can i simply have a yes or no answer to this question:
My brother used to put his hands down the back of my trousers and grab my butt and stuff like that, i told him to stop but he wouldnt. is this abuse?

it dosnet sound like abuse, however it could be thought of as sexual harassment! it depends on the age of your brother and his maturity level too! he could have thought it was just a joke?! but you know if he was kidding or not! if you feel really uncomftorable and disturbed after this I would just talk to a parent or an adult you can trust! sorry i couldnt answer in a yes or no =/! but hopefully ive been of some assistance ♥


i want to get my boyfriend something for his problem is that he says he doesnt want what do i do?

hes turning 15

hes probably just trying to be nice..he dosnet want you to go out of your way and spend money! tell him that no you insist on getting him something..if he still says he dosent want anything id go for just a classic date..maybe invite him over and make him dinner, then go to a movie afterwards! you can never really go wrong with that combo! good luck ♥ hope i helped


ok, my bf thinks that i dont like him very much...but i dont know y. i mean i told him that that isnt the deal but he wont listen. he even asked advice on here that said "i think my gf is going to break up with me...but i dont know. i dont think she likes me that much. what should i do?"
can you belive that. i dont know how to get it through to him that i really really like him. how? any advice?

tell him once more that you feel the relationship is going fine and have no intention on breaking up with him..if he needs constant reasurance then he is obviously insucrue! i would at that point concider breaking up with him for real..but its up to you and if you can deal with him always wondering if things are ok? hope i helped =) good luck


Okay so Im only 14, but i really feel like I'm in love for the first time and i want to know if thats stupid for me to be "in love" at such a young age or if its normal?... please help me

there is no right or wrong age to fall in love..if youre really and truly in love youll definately know! hope Ive helped ♥


what are some flirty sweet names to call a guy besides sexy or baby???

hey gorgeous ♥


Hi, I am 14 years old, and I am dating a 16year old male. He is everything that I look for in a man. Everything is goin great. How can I keep it that way and improve it to make it more interesting?

every realationship hits one of those boring points where the whole situation feels old and worn be sponatanious, try new things, and just have a lot of fun! then again you said everthings going great so you could also just leave it how it is..either way Im sure it will go great! hope I helped ♥ good luck


I'm 16 and I have recently gotten mixed up in the dating scene again. I've been staying single for a few months to try and sort out my priorities so that the next time I decide to start dating again I will end up with a guy that will treat me right. Well that day has come but its certainly not as easy as I thought it would be thats for sure! One guy I've known since I was a little kid, my mom knows his parents and she likes the idea of me dating him. Plus we've liked eachother for over two years and have both are single now. We've talked on the phone alot and hung out almost every other day. We've kissed and we have so much in common and he is really sweet. But some things about him I'm unsure of. I don't trust him that easily because some things he says seem like lines and he hasn't ever brought up the subject of us dating or anything so I'm not sure if he just wants to mess around, cuz I'm not up for that. The other guy I've met a few days ago. He just recently moved here and the minute our eyes met we clicked. We have alot of things in common, his parents already met me and love me, my mom knows about him and is willing to give him a chance, and we've already talked of dating and he's all up for it and so now it is my desicion. And there lies the problem. I like both guys and I have major chemistry with both. My mom wouldn't mind me dating either and now I'm stuck in a tricky situation. The first guy is from my school and I really want to give him a chance cuz I like him and if I turn him down and date the other guy he might feel played. And visa versa. Please help me. My heart is torn between these two guys and I have no idea which way to go!

~Hopelessly Torn Apart

I would personally go with the guy who is open to dating (the 2nd), he has made an effort while the other guy just expects you to still be there! now rememeber this is my personal choice but its completely up to you! youve made up a pro and con list so basiclly all you have left to do is decide, good luck ♥


*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*

hey! hmm im not really sure how you could lead him to it but if you want you can just make a special little place where the book is sitting! this way it will be romantic and quiet! you could set up the area pretty and maybe look through the book then watch a movie afterwards =) just have fun and be yourself..and if he said he loves you even after youve broken up, im pretty sure you guys will be getting back together in the future! good luck ♥ thanks for asking me


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