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~NeedAdvice21 (or A.K.A. Adriana)♥

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I'm 13/f.My friend is 13/f too.Here's what happened:
I bought some new clothes for school.I showed my friend while she was at my house.She said my clothes were ugly.She then proceeded to go to my closet.Needless to say,she got my into giving her some pants,a nice leather jacket,a hat,and some make-up.I don't know how she does it!She just begs me for it.So,when I ask to borrow her lipgloss,she says no.I give her all this stuff(unwillingly),and she won't even let me borrow her lipgloss.and,she insults me too.She says I have no style.I want to start out fresh next year.So:Should I dump her because of this,or still be her friend?

i would dump her. obviously she wants to borrow your stuff because she likes them. maybe what you could do is ask her why is she saying that she has no style if she says that your clothes are ugly. then also you would have a point, so she is jelosous of you. that is why she borrows your stuff and says your clothes are ugly. i hope i helped. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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well, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6months now. In the beginning everythign was all good. BUt now were always with each other and were always fighting and he always makes me the bad guy. i feel so bad when we fight, and i feel like our relationship is going down hill. i just need advice on how to keep our relationship together thanx

what you could do is try to work it out w/ your bf. maybe you guys could talk about. if he just starts fighting about that, maybe he's not the right one for you. sry. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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okayy .. well call my boyfriend frankie. me and frankie have been together for 5 months. and we have our problems. but we cant stay apart. we broke up once for 2 days and then we both coodnt stand it. and last night we did again .. for 15 minutes .. and we hated it .. we talked about it and we wanna be together.

but frankie's friend tom, likes me. so tom has been telling me all this stuff that supposedly frankie sayin/gonna do (he's goina cheat on me, he wouldn't care if me and tom hooked up) but he's like you cant tell frankie about this ..

could tom just be tryin to get me to break up with franki cuz he likes me. because there was a RUMOR that i liked someone else and franki got pissed. and he got pissed off one day when tom wouldn't stop lookin down my shirt. doesn't that seem like the opposite of not caring if i hook up with tom ..? i think soo ..


that was question #1, is tom possibly makin that stuff up?

and question #2:

me and franki arent perfect. we argue alot. he doesnt always call when he cant keep his plans, and he works alot. and all my friends say i shoodnt take his shit .. but i cant help it .. im miserable w/o him .. ive never liked anyone as much as him .. is it wrong to stay with someone who doesnt' treat you the best, but still can make you feel better than anyone else .. because everyone's makin me feel like it is ...


sorry for lengthh! please help me ..

hi
question 1: i think tom is making it up. obviously he did that so he would convince you to go out with him if you and frankie break up. tom even could have started that rumor.

question 2: you could do what ever you want with frankie. when you break up, you guys hate it so you are obviously right for each other. also if the fighting gets too annoying, you could just work that out with him. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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i want to get my hair permanently straightened, but my parents both said no. because: my mom said it would damage my hair because of the chemicals. my dad said that its not really permanent and it doesnt last a long time. and i don't have to worry about it being too expensive because my uncle works at a hair salon and he can do it for me for free. is what my mom and dad said true? what are some good things and bad things about getting it permanently straightened? thankss soooo much.

hi
idk that much about hair but my uncle works at a salon and does my hair for free too. what you could do is ask you uncle if its true and if it ins't, he can convinse your parent to let him do it. i hope this plan works. if you need to ask me more questions or need more advice, ask me in my advice column.
~NeedAdvice21

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I just got this shirt and it says "Dude, STFU" on it (cool points if you know where it's from). Well my mom said she doesn't mind if I wear it but my dad wouldn't like it. She told me to tell him STFU stands for something else but I can't come up with anything. Any help?

idk if this will help but Stop Tossing Food Up. it may seem stupid but your dad could believe it and not think it says Shut The F*** Up. if you need to ask me more questions or need more advice, ask me in my advice column.
~NeedAdvice21

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My sweet 16 theme is Hollywood and me and my friends want to go all out. We are trying to think of people to dress as, but are coming up blank.


I'd love to hear some advice on it, or even a website for ideas.

I tried google but it didn't help me much.


Thanks

the only person i could think of is paris hilton. what you could do for her is, you could have a poofy, tan hat, (not huge but looks like a visor)a cammi shirt, miniskirt w/legging and matching flip flops and curl your hair. only if you want, you can get a little pink purse and put a fake dog in it. (you really DONT HAVE TO DO IT!!!) to see other people, you should look at pictures of a certain person on the internet or on tv and see what they like to wear. also some sites on the internet sell the same clothes that celebs were. if you need to ask me more questions or need more advice, ask me in my advice column.
~NeedAdvice21

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My hair is really poofy. Even after I straighten it bottom layer, then top. I've bleached my hair and all that good stuff. I was wondering, if I got my hair chemicaly straightened, would that make it non-poofy?

Sorry, for the bad spelling.

getting your hair chemically straightened would make it non-poofy. also just so u know if you do it and is a little frizzy, then get some john frieda frizz-control stuff. i use it and it works for me.
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~NeedAdvice21

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I started using a fake tanner in the past week. It works great and looks natural and real. My question is, can I go outside and sitll sunbathe while I am still using a fake tanner? Becuase I was thinking of this; take a shower in the morning and apply fake tanner. Then later on in the afternoon, I would sunbathe for about 15 minutes on each side, and work it up to 30 min. Is this ok, and will I still be able to tan outside? Thank-you for your advice.

hi
maybe what you can do is stop using the fake tanner for a little while and get regular tanning oil and sunbathe. even some nail salons have thoughs tanning things where you lay down on it. i don't know if you would like to do that though. what i do for tanning is use tanning oil and sunscreen for sunbathing. not to brag or anything but it helped me out, but i didn't turn out very dark, just about an olive color skin. also while you sunbathe, you should try to prevent skin cancer too.
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~NeedAdvice21

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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and just here lately i've been real tired and hungry all the time and I havn't been doing anything to cause me being tired all the time like yesterday I was asleep all day from 12:00 untill 10:00pm what could be causing this and how can I stop it?
Iam really worried is this anything I should be worried about?

hi
i don't know what that is. to tell you the truth, i have been tired all the time too. that is why i wrote the late at night. also i haven't been hungry either. maybe you don't have enough energy to keep you awake. what you can do is if you are up early and can't get back to sleep, you can go to a local exercising gym. when i go at 8:00am to go there, i feel energized and feel get thoughout the day. if you don't feel like doing that, then you could just try it one day to see if you like it. it best if you try it in the morning. if you do it in the afternoon or at night, then you don't feel as good as you do in the morning. i hope i helped you.
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~NeedAdvice21

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Tomorrow I have to get my first cavity done.. ever! I'm so scared because I know they have to numb your mouth with novocaine by putting a needle through your gum! I have such a fear of needles or anythign sharp but I still have to get this done. Does the shot really hurt that much? What can I compare the pain too! Thank you

hi
this doesn't hurt at all. i had a cavity a few years ago and it didn't hurt at all. since its novicane, you don't feel it. trust me on this. if you don't like the feeling tommorrow, try to prevent getting another cavity. but i am okay with it.
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~NeedAdvice21

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I am 14/f and I haven't had my period since early May. I've gone for over two months without getting my period. I'm starting to get concerned about it. I got my first period when I was 12. Lately, I've started eating a lot healthier than I used to. I used to eat ice cream every night and eat a lot of snacks that were high in calories and fat. But now I eat snacks like fruit and yogurt, and I try to balance out the number of servings I eat from all the food groups. Also, I've started running more to get in shape for lacrosse (3 mi. every morning), and I swim on a swim team (twice a day 5 days a week). I've lost about 10 or 15 pounds since the last time I had my period. I know I'm not pregnant because I haven't had sex. And I'm not anorexic, I'm 5'6" and weigh 125. I eat regularly, about 2000 calories daily. So why haven't I had my period. Am I at risk for anything serious? How can I change what I'm doing to ensure that I get my period again? Thanks, I'm so worried!

hi
the same thing happened to me. just my doctor said that your body neeed to get use to it before it while its being phisical before it can start again. basically, it just might take a while until you get it. (not too long, for me it was 4 months.
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~NeedAdvice21

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What can a 13 year old do to get money? I'm almost desperate. I seriously have no money, neither does my family. I just need some ideas to earn some extra money.
Thanks!

hi
the way you can earn money is to baby-sit a neighbor or to walk the neighbors dog daily. maybe you can even take a part time job as a cashier at a local market and/or at the mall, or even at an ice cream shop after school. On weekends you can do your job then or even just hang-out with your friends. i hope you can earn money that way
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~NeedAdvice21

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