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~NeedAdvice21 (or A.K.A. Adriana)♥

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okay so if anyone knows if i should do this or not..

well i have been thinking about it but i got this scar when i was about 4 & im not 13. its going away so what but its so noticeable & i dont like it. my mom tells me i can go into surgery for it & they will make it gone. does anyone know if that will be painfull. should i just let it stay there. cause its not like really really noticeable only a little.. plesae help me thanks.

hi-whats the point of going into surgery if it is not noticeable? i think you shouldn't go into surgery because its fine, not like it is infected or anything like that. i hope i helped.
~NeedAdvice21♥

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does anyone know where you would to go order a manikin with certain dimmensions? Don't say eBay please, they don't have manikins with the right dimmensions. Thanks for the help

you could try amazon.com. If you have any more questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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how do i download music from my computer to my ipod nano?

once you have sngs on itunes, you need to plug in your ipod and the songs in your library will automatically go on your ipod. if it doesn't, then you drag the songs that you want from your library to the ipod section. If you have any more questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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i always see people's profile saying something like basketball

its a heart to show that they love it &heart If you have any questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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my friend thinks she might be pregnate shes only 14. how can you tell if you are or not without buying a test?

you can tell if you skip you peirod for a few months but that will be long. If you have any questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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hey guys im about to have a party with my friend and we want to have some questions in our mind for truth or dare but we cant think of any! if anyone has some good ones much appreciated thanks in advance!

Truth:
who is you crush?
what is your bra size?
if you were to make out with someone in your class, who would it be?
if there was a rumor going aroung the school that you had a crush on a nerd, who do you think started it?
if someone asked you out, who would you hope for it to be?
who do you think the thinnest guy in you school is and the fattest?
would you go to school naked for one day if someone gave you $250,000?

Dare:

scream that you love *a nerds name.*
chop onions until you cry.
call and talk to your crush, when you talk to them, pretend you are a chinese person.

kind of stupid but tried to help. If you have any questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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ok i really like this girl. i don't know what to do though, since she sometimes acts like she likes me, and yet others she doesn't. i also have trouble asking her out (because i am somewhat shy and/or a coward when it comes to that), but i really want to.

what should i do?

14/m

you never know if shes interested. you should just ask her out, just try to be calm and not panic. be cool and you could have a chance with her. If you have any questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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i have a friend whos 16, living in Canada....she and her family dont get on well, and she doesnt have many friends...she talks about running away and getting a job and starting a new life on her own.
IM just wondering how hard it is for 16 year olds to get jobs in Canada, and how i could help her? i cant convince her to stay, so i want her to have a good start...so any suggestions would be great!
thank you

running away won't help. people are going to search for her and she might be known all over because she wouldn't be found. she obiviously will miss her family. she needs to learn and must have her parents help. make her listen to you. tell her all of the consiquences of her running away. also tell her how she won't be able to get a good job or get into college or even get a car without her families support. if she runs away she might be found anyway. there was a girl known all over the world because she was missing but really she ran away. i think her name was elizabeth. if she runs away forever, she will hate it and will see herself allover the news and get anooyed by it. i hope i helped. If you need more advice or have any questions, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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my budgie always has a very dirty vent, his poop always sticks to the feathers around there.how can it keep it clean?he wont let me bath him.should i clip the feathers around there shorter?or try to us a spray bottle to spray the area with water to clean it up?any other ways i could keep his vent clean?

you should cut the feathers short. also you could take him to be groomed and they could tell you what to do. they could even do it for you. If you need more advice or have any questions, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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i have to get into shape.....this guy i loke is so cute and i want him..and i just wanna make sure my belly is flat...cuz i am not fat i just wanna get nice so he will notice me...but i am 115 lbs. and i am like 5 feet 1 inch


but please help me find ways to get him...cuz he likes me and i like him....and if this helps i go to water polo and swim training everday
and i play soccer and cross country

so i am fit!!

thanks
meghan

hi-what you could do is to be more fit is eat healthier food or go to a local gym and workout. if you go to a local gym, the thing for you is to go on a treadmill and do 5 laps, put the grade on 3, and start slow then get up to as fast as you can jog on it, and then get slow again. so you have to streth that out thoughout the whole 5 laps. also you seem to be fine. i am 5'3'' and 135lbs. i wish i had you body. If you need more advice or have any questions, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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My mom never lets me leave the house. I can't convince her to, and since I have to stay around the house all day, what can I do besides watch TV and movies all day?

P.S.-I'm only allowed on the phone and computer for 30 minutes a day, and if I do one, I can't do the other.

tell your mom that you need more clothes. so she will take you shopping or ask to have a friend sleepover. even you could ride your bike outside and/or visit the neighbors. ask your mom if you could have job. if she won't let you, then ask her for on around home. take the neighbors dog for a walk and get paid for it. help your mom out and get paid too. i hope it works. If you need more advice or have any questions, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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Well my dad died a few years back, and my mom has been depressed and lonely ever since. She tells me all the time that it's hopeless for her to find a single guy her age anymore (45, but she doesn't near look it). Just last night she said to me, 'Honey, I'm lonely,'. And it broke my heart, because she loved my dad, but she hasn't found anyone. She has tried online dating and that wasn't her thing. What are some of your ideas for my mom to meet men? Thank you so much for your help!

hi-maybe what you could do is is try to take her to a place were most men are, at work, in a mens store, or evenyou could do the online dating thing for her. i hope i helped. If you need more advice or have any questions, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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i was wondering if anyone knew any tricks to make henna tattoos stay on your skin longer or not fade. i am going on vacation to the beach and i want to get one but i dont want it to fade beore i come home. ive had one before and they always fade soon. does anyone have any tricks? thanks

hi-i heard that putting hairspray or vaseline on it helps. it may sound weird but the hairspray makes it more stiff and sticky so it stays on longer. If you need more advice or have any questions, ask me in my column. Don't forget feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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for the first time i had phone sex. my boyfriend told me what to do but i didnt think it would be so plesent i dont know if know i should have sex with him? anyone please answer i'll give 5's

you should no what to do. if you really like him then go ahead. it really depends on if you are comfortable about it or not. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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my period is really heavy like the first 3 days! well i dont care during the day because i wear tampons but at night i wear pads. i usually have to wear like 4 seriously big pads because its so heavy at night and sometimes that even leaks through! i heard that wearing a tampon for a long time like overnight is bad for you and you are at higher risk for that TSS or whatever! soo is it? or what should i do? im even on birth control lol and im 16/f. and thats why i went on birth control because i thought it would help my heavy flow but it doesnt seem to work.

i think there are some tampons that you could wear overnight. it would say on the box if you were able to. you could look it up on the internet if you have to find what brand you could wear overnight. you could also ask your doctor too. i hope i helped.If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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I really need to lose weight before volleyball... i'm 5'8 and 125 and i wanna be around 115 or 110 so like how can i lose weight fast????

hi-what you should do is maybe do about 20 sit ups a day, eat healthy foods and go to a local gym to workout. i wish i were you though. im 5'3'' and am 135lbs. i wish i had your body. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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What should I buy,

Prey for xbox360 or call of duty 2 for xbox 360?

they're both 60, but whats a better deal?

i think call of duty is way better! If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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How do you remove tips from nails without going to the nail salon and having them do it

hi-you probably should soak them in acetone. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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my mom thinks that ever since i got my heart broken about 2 or 3 years ago, i like any boy that tells me nice things. that's not true. i had a boyfriend after that and it's been six months that i broke up with him after i found out he was gay. but, i really like this boy and she made me swear on everything that i wouldn't kiss him next time i see him or not to let him kiss me. and i kinda like this boy. and she's just being a pain about it. i don't see what's so bad about it. talking to her isn't going to help. i already tried

2 questions:
- how can i keep the kiss from happening that night? (like to make it seem like i want it but not at this moment--- kinda like play hard to get with the kiss)
- how can i stop my mother from thinking this

ps i already talked to her!!! she doesn't listen

PLEASE HELP ME
THANK YOU

hi-what you could try to do is get the guy like you like to prove your mom wrong. try to hang around him and be good in front of her. maybe he could tell your mom that you wouldn't kiss him. she could be happy about that. if she tries to talk to you again, tell her that you fully understand what she means. she just wants the best from you. If you have anymore questions or need more advice, ask me in my column. Don't forget to leave feedback.
~NeedAdvice21

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hi-i need your help. i really like this guy. he cute, funny, and athletic. i've talked to him before but only had one conversation. he also smiles at me and stays around me but never told me that he likes me. its obvious that he likes me but i might not see him again. since the school year his over, he graduated and i have two more year left before i graduate. the only memory i have about him is our middle school year book. he is going to a different high school then me (because i am switching schools and it goes into a high school) and i've never seen him out side of school before. also my friends always talk about him. they say how weird he is and are mean to him but its too late for me to stop it. also i wouldn't want to look stupid if i stand up for him. they think that he is a geek but actually he is one of the coolest guys in our school. (he isn't nerdy looking or has glasses or any of that stuff) i have no idea what to do if i see him. the next time i see him could be in 2 years and i already might have gotten over him. please tell me what to do. thanks!

you can't do anything about this. it isn't your fault that he didn't say anything to you or that you may not see him again. at least you will always remember him from your yearbook.

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