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Welcome To My Advice Column!♥ I am a 13 year old girl and am very outgoing♥ My name is Adriana and I enjoy my life and solve my own problems♥ I help my friends a lot and easily understand people here♥ Also I try to get to as many people as I can, so don't take it personally♥ If you need to ask me any questions or need advice, ask me in my advice column♥
~NeedAdvice21 (or A.K.A. Adriana)♥

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During the first few weeks of summer me and my friends went out and drank for a couple of nights. I can drink alot because I have a high tolerance and I never get hangovers. But throughout the entire week that we were doing this, I had a headache. It wasn't a bad one, but no matter how much medicene I took, it just didn't go away. It never stopped untill I finally stopped drinking for the week. Could it have been an ongoing hangover since we did it every night? Or was it related to something else? thanks.

it probably was because since you had too much alchohl in your blood stream and you got a headache. what you should do is drink les like maybe every other night and only 3 drinks a night. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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Okay, so, im 15, and im going into my first year at high school. Its summer and there is this soar program (summer school basically) the introduces me into algebra. The thing is, I am like majorly terrified! what will high school be like once the year starts? will the people be nice? the school is like a maze, im gonna get lost for sure, I am so scatter brained! What should do? Does any one have advice for starting the school year or surviving the treacherous mayhem of algebra and puzzling world I am now cursed with?

hi-even though im 13 and going into eight grade, it was hard to get into middle school. my school is like a maze and i got lost but then i got used to it. also, everyone else your age is going to go through it too. you aren't they only one. next year im going to go through it. also i took algebra in 6th and 7th grade and it isn't that hard. also everyone did algebra in kindergarten when they do 2+2. algebra is just a fancy way of saying math. you have experience in it, but you know now. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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Every single time i go to bed, all my life i've had problems falling asleep. ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY. I CANNOT get comfortable, i toss and turn for hours before i can find a good stop, NONSTOP. Something is always bothering me, either my leg is not covred, or its covered too much, i'm bretahing on myself, y covers are itchy, tehres not enouhg covers, my leg is up too high, im falling off the bed, the lsit goes on and on! Most people ignore these thigns but tehy bug the heck out of me, i thought maybe i havr RLS (restless leg syndrome) but idk. does ANYBODY have any idea wat this is? or am i just like that and tehres nothing i can do about it

you could have rls. you could ask a doctor about it. they could give you that medicine that you see on tv. but on that comercial, it says that you could get tired during your normal activites so you should take it before you go to bed beause it works fast. also it could be your matress. you should go to a local matress shore and see if that could be the problem. if your matress is new, i probably is rsl or you are not used to sleeping on that matress. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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sometimes i get this gooy white stuff in my underwear what is it?

its discharge. if you look in those books about the body changing and that stuff, it mostly likely will be there. i hope i helped and please rate.
~adriana♥

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I really wanna look good in my clothes and wear designer stuff but it's expensive and I was wondering where I could get clothes that look like designer. but i don't wanna be called a loser for wearing knock-offs and stuff. please help me find some good shops.

you could try marshall's. they have some stuff under $100. even better is to try nordstrom, they have a huge sale. if you don't have any of those stores near you, you could go on there website which is marshalls.com and nordstrom.com.
i hope i helped.
~adriana♥


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my boyfriend who ive been with for a very long time wanted to finger me today..but im on my period! hes already done it many times before so when he started to go for it and i took his hand away he was like whats wrong? i didnt want his hand to touch that he'd be DISGUSTED! so i just said"not now"but he kept trying to later on! i wear pads most of the time but even when i do wear tampons..i still cant tell him im on my period cause thatll make everything so awkward! how do you tell a guy without being embarassed and it is it gonna make them freaked out?? cause frankly, its the only thing thats stopping me from doing it and i have no idea what to say.

hi- you can't just tell him the real reason because he might get freaked out. say that its not a good week or even stay away from him that week.(i don't mean to not see him but leave before he tries to start and get out of that mess) i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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The other day me and my bf were talking and she said that when she pees sometimes it smells like anomnia or whatever and it stinks? What could that be caused by. I mean she doesn't have stds or anything.

its natural for anomnia to be in urine. she doesn't have to worry at all. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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whatwas the imickey mouse club

there is a mickey mouse club house show on disney channel in the morning. i hope i helped.
***NOTE*** I don't watch it! The reason i know is because that is my cousin's favorite show, so i have to watch it with her.
~adriana♥

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My husband has planned our summer vacation every year since we have been together. With the exception of last year, we traveled out of state to my nephew's wedding. (He now says that was my turn at planning)

Usually we do things that I am not interested in, but I go along with it because I want the kids to have fun. At the beginning of this year he agreed I should plan the vacation. I planned on a fishing/boating trip. He agreed at the time, but has now changed his mind. He told our 12/yr old son (the older kids aren't going) we will go to World's of Fun and a baseball game. (without consulting me) I don't like the rides, and I don't like baseball. He won't take the boat due to gas prices, and besides we have the Missouri River out our back-door. I tried to work out a compromise, but he won't budge. I told them to go without me and I will find something else to do here.

He says now, thanks to me the vacation is cancelled, because he refuses to go without me.

I don't want to dissapoint my son. So now what?

what you should do is talk to your husband and tell him how you feel about it. the two of you should work it out and do something you both would enjoy together. when you make a disicion, you should tell your son about it. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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Hey im trying to lose like 5 or 6 pounds and i was wondering if anyone new any outside games i could play with my brother or sister or even both
PLease and thanx XOXO

hi-you could go for a bike ride, do a triatholon(how ever you spell it), soccer, basketball, manhunt (at night when you have nothing else to do), kickball, baseball, street hockey(to exercise a lot, you should be center), run around the block or go to a neighbors house and ask if they want to play so you have more players. it will be fun to do this. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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Ok here's the deal. Whenever I masterbate or get fingered by my boyfriend I start to have all the classic symptoms of pre-orgasm (i.e. my discharge increases, I get hot and I feel that wonderful tension). Just when I feel like i'm about to explode, the feeling ends up fading away or just plain disappearing. What's happening? Why can't I orgasm?

what you have to do is relax and not have to worry about anything. also you have been doing it for awhile, so you might just be getting used to it happening. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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my one friend wants to help me with my imperfections..i mean she hasn't said it but i know she wants to.so should i be offended? or should i think its nice?

you don't have to be offended. you two should go to the mall together and go shopping. if she has good style, she could always help you. i would like for a friend of mine to help me out. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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I'm 14.
To make a really long story shorter, my bff...Jane. Has an abusive boyfriend, also, she's only 13, which makes it even more weird. She's going out with a 15 year old.
And she says I'm the only one she told.
She says he doesn't like beat her up, he just hits her a lot..
I never noticed, but recently she's been wearing long sleeves. Because she's actually BRUISED.

But, Jane says she really has it under control, and doesn't want to break up with him because she apparently realllly likes him. And she says he likes her, but..

I said if I were her I would break up with him.
Then she said something like that I didn't know what love was, so I couldn't say that.
I've never really been in this kind of situation before.
Do I tell an adult?
If you were me..what would you...do?
ugh, I'm kind of confused.
And I want to help my friend.

you probably should tell a consuler or tell your mom to talk to your friends mom. im sure they could work it out that way. if my boyfriend did that to me, my mom would notice and i would break up with him anyway. also you could try to tell her that its physical abuse, if should would listen to that. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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how do you find out the model number of a dell computer? and also the service tag number? thanks

go to dell.com. contact them and they can answer you. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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this summer i want to read a bit more. (about 15+ books.) so far, the only book i have is TWiNS by William Morrow.
anymore books? thxxx much

hoot
camp confidential
the one percent doctrine
tweleve sharp
the da vinci code
the memory keppers daughter
angels fall
talk talk
can't wait to go to heaven
at risk
the husband
break no bones

i hope i helped
~adriana♥

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I have a friend that is so wrapped in herself and shes the friend that i feel like i can go to with anything, but all she cares about is herself and shes spoiled in getting her way. i don't want to give up the friendship. so, what do i do???

i have the same problem. i couldn't find out what to do so i talked to her about it. she seemed okay w/ it but she said that she has been to caught up w/ herself. she apologized and has been better. the same thing probably wouldn't happen w/ you but you should talk to her about while you are like at the mall or something like that. maybe you should help her with buying things or something like that. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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i understand that not everyone on this site lives in buffalo, new york, but this is for the people that do. the radio station kiss 98.5 is having a concert called kiss the summer hello. my mom bought the tickets presale because she is in the vip club thing. there was no option to buy the ticket and park admission combo. now there is. my question is that are the tickets we bought park admission also?

i heard about the concert but idk. you could check it out on there website. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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OKAY, here it goes...! K, i fell down the stairs at my school last week, on Monday. I dont think i really broke or sprained anything, but i hit my head really hard on the tile floor, and the stairs( i was at the top and fell to the bottom). Now, almost a week later, i feel lightheaded, and dizzy... is it from the fall? should i consult my doctor?!

hi-i think you should see a doctor. you could have gotten a concusion or something like that. the doctor would probably give you medicine. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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Okay, here's what's going on in my life right now - I just recently got out of a relationship, and I'm reacting to the breakup kind of strangely. I never really cried, but I keep feeling my eyes burn and my throat tighten. I never cry for more than like, 30 seconds.
I've always had kind of a habit of forcing myself not to cry, and I'm worried that it's gone too far. I feel like, emotionally numb. I'm not upset or angry, I'm just kind of...there.
Physically, I have no appetite, and no energy. Thing is, I'm trying to lose weight. I weigh about 130 and I'm 5'4". My goal is 118, and I've been doing like, Atkins and South Beach - both work really well, by the way.
I know anorexia is not the way to go and it's insanely unhealthy, but I don't want to eat if I'm not hungry...and I'm never hungry. The other day I didn't eat until around 3pm, and picked at what I got. I'm also having major sleep problems...
I'm basically falling apart, and I don't know what to do.
I NEED to lose the weight, is my main thing. I hate my body and I always have. I want the image I have in my mind...but I don't have the motivation to work out recently. What I thought I might do is try to lose fat and hit 118, then start toning. I know I'll gain muscle, but at least if I hit 118 first, then tone, I'll know it's muscle.
Anyway, I don't know what's going on with my reaction to breaking up, and I don't know how to fix it. I actually tried to make myself cry, and I got like, one tear. I was with this guy for quite awhile, and we had an amazing connection. Why am I not more upset?
I don't understand it.
In any case, I wanna hear what you guys have to say, so speak up.
Pay attention to your spelling and grammar, please. I'll rate you down if it's incorrect.

Hi. You probably are not used to this kind of stuff and its new for you. Also since you couldn't really cry, you could be used to the fact that its over or you might have gotten over it. I know how if feels like and I can't really cry myself. I have know idea why. From what I think is that its just being used to it. I hope I helped.
~Adriana♥

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Can having surgery affect your period? cause i just had my appendix out, and now my periods all weird. This never happens, so i'm kinda worried!

you probably should see a doctor about that. if your peirod was fine before the surgery, then it did get messed up. so i guess it does affect your peirod. the doctor could give you medicine to stop thoughs screwed-up peirods from happening. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥

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