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I'm a level II mod on this site, so if you have questions regarding the site I could be of good help.
As for my crappy advice: it is crappy. If you listen to anything I suggest you will most probably find yourself running through town naked, or something equally hilarious, because I am a sadist.
And of course, I will hit you with my guitar, and then steal all of your intelligence for my own personal stash.
(My avatar, that is just above, was made by Draak, it is Thor's Hammer, or Mjolner.)
P.S.: Storageanddisposal is actually 12, and Fern sucks.
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Member Since: September 17, 2004
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i've known a guy for exactly 2 months now.
If the hug was all you said it was, then he was likely thinking...
he's this gorgeous sex-god type guy, and he's the type that's just so cool. it's evident to me that he's never really had to work for a girl's affection before. anyway, i hear he has had a lot of girlfriends, but he's not a slut or player. whenever i see him i am intimidated, and our conversations seem a little bit strained because i never really say what's on my mind. although he does that raised eyebrow thing that guys do when they're attracted to you, and he treats me differently than i have seen him treating my friends or other girls. he always approaches me first, or only gives me a hug and not my friends, etc.. recently, i saw him again, and he gave me this hug where he wrapped his hands and arms so tightly on my waist. and he pressed me against him really tightly. the hug was pretty much a 5 second hug, which isn't a normal friendly greeting type hug. at one point i even tried to break away because i realized it surpassed the usual hug, but he didn't budge, so we held on a bit longer. that kind of hug is not a hug you give someone you're not attracted to. then after the hug he didn't really look at me, and said that he was feeling weird and that he would be right back, but then said something else i don't remember. i think the gist of it was that he had to go talk to other people and that he probably wouldn't come back or that i shouldn't wait for him, but i'd see him around. he didn't even stick around for a conversation or anything, and he never came back.
WHAT THE HELL. WAS HE JUST DRUNK AND MAYBE FORGOT OR WHAT??!? WHAT'S YOUR TAKE ON THIS? WHY ARE GUYS SO COMPLICATED
"I gotta get out of her sights before this erection gets noticeable."
"I gotta go run away before she asks me questions."
Just wait, he'll be back eventually.