I am having a hard time meeting people at the university I go to, and I'm not sure why. My friends say I walk too fast and that I'm unapproachable because I don't always speak first. I am a little shy, but I would really like to make some friends because most of the people I know recently dispersed to schools in other states/cities. I do talk to people when I can, but it just doesn't seem to develop into a friendship where we could hang out anywhere but school. Is there anything more I can do? Thanks.
Are you new to the university environment? I think that everything will fall into place, we always somehow manage to meet the right people and stick with them, and manage to drift away from those that aren't right. It just takes some time, it's like freshmen year of high school all over again.
Forcing yourself to talk to lots of people won't help, it has to work itself out.
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I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 but we are madly in love ...so we had sex about a month ago and i havnt had my period....we were also protected with a comdom but you know they are only 85 % protective...so i have been looking online about signs of pregnacny and i seem to have none of the signs except of a late period...i told my boyfriend about it and he said to wait till the end of october and see if you get your period..so im gonna wait and then take a pregancy test....but theres a 50 50 chance i might be and if i am...im not shure wut to ..is there any way i can get by this with out my parents knowing ?? is there any way i can kill the baby before its nooticeable...?? ...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? or is there any pill i can take that can kill ??...i know its wrong but i dont know wut to do so plz tell me...thanks!!
Listen people, we're not here to give her a fucking lecture on the morals of abortion.
"...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? "
Yes, you absolutely can. Contact an abortion clinic for more information. Don't tell them that you had sex with an 18 year old man because that is statuatory/sagatory (same thing, I think) rape, which can get him arrested.
does toothpaste really work on pimples? what is the best thing to do to ur pimples, or what is the best product to use? please hellp!
It doesn't work well then you end up smelling like toothepaste. EWW!!!
Go to a dermatologist and ask if you can have some sample tubes or a prescription for Tazorac. At this moment, it's really the best thing you can use to get rid of pimples. It doesn't prevent though, only gets rid of them. You can get rid of a pimple entirely in two days if you put a dab of Tazorac on it once a day.
whats a six pack?
It could also be a 6 pack of beer -- 6 cans of beer.
ive just started doing pot this year and i feel that ive becoming addicted to it now. When i did it for the first time i told myself that i wouldn't get addicted, but now its so hard not to do it. Most of my friends do it and when im around it i just wanna smoke it up with them too. What should i do?
Well, if they're your friends they probably won't be angry if you say no to them. And no, you shouldn't ditch your friends unless they're like, forcing you to smoke it.
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my friend gave me a note to give to another friend...and i forgot to. Later that night i remember the note was in my pocket so i did a bad thing and read it. In the note she talked about how she wants to kill herself and about how she is thinking about slitting her wrisits! what should i do! if i tell my friend she`ll be furious that i invaded her privacy...but if i dont....who knows what could happen!
Privacy is less important a human life. You have to tell an adult about this. Her being furious at you will be forgotten.
One day, me and my best friend(a guy!) were just hanging out at my house, and somehow we started talking about what we liked in guys or girls, and we just kindda were like, "you know, were perfect for each other!" so we kind of hooked up right then. We were kising and cuddling at first, and then we started making out. And i dont just mean a lot of kissing and moving your head...this was very passionate and intimate. i was in HEAVEN. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor..but the next day it was like nothing happened. i called him to see what he was doing, and he told me he was getting ready to go out on a date with this really sleezy girl from another school. After about 3 days, he called me to tell me that they were dating. i was devestated. he truly broke my heart. It has been three months since they got together, and he just called me to tell me that they broke up. I have worked so hard to get over him, but now i have a chance to be with him. Is he even worth it? i mean...what if he hurts me again? i dont think i could handle that. Please tell me what to do! Take him back or Leave him in the dust?
He's just a guy who wants to get into all the girls' pants... and unfortunately, you got caught up in an illusion where it seemed magical, and in the end got hurt. I feel bad for you.
Don't get caught up in it again, let the oppurtunity pass to avoid getting hurt again. Eventually you'll stop thinking about this guy.
hey um at my school the teachers are all really formal and stuff so if u even say sex they like put u in detention. have any of you had it? can u tell me about what it feels like and stuff cause it would be really akward to ask my mom.
I'm guessing that you live in a small down or deep suburbs. That really sucks that they put you in detention, though.
That should be enough for you to look through to get a good idea.
hey~ i'm 13/f and i have lots of good friends. and recently four of them turned into b/f and g/f and both couples broke up on friday. i no they said they still wanted to be friends but i no it will never be the same, i don't want to chose sides so what should i say if they start asking me to? any help will be apreciated!
You need to try to stay as impartial as possible, don't try and be two-faced to satisfy both sides, because when they find out they will be pretty pissed at you.
You can support them if they are still in the crying 24/7 stage, but if they start saying things like:
"He's such a jackass! I can't believe he did this to me!"
You have to say as little as possible to avoid trouble, nothing opinionated.
does anyone know any good babysitting slogens that i can put on some handouts that i'm making?
Even though OpenHeart's are pretty good, how about something that will get their attention better than an ordinary slogan?
Like, "Baby Sitting Services: I promise I won't molest your kid."
well me and my boo have been together a year now..and all we do is kiss and makeout but i dont have a problem with that (savin myself 4 marriage)..i was juss wondering anyne have any fun kissin ideas..like if ur bf/gf kissed a certain way that was juss beyond a perfect kiss..i juss wanna spice up our relationship withoutleading to gettin into each others pants!
I respect you for holding out until you're married. But there's not much more you can do to spice up the relationship. All you can really do is try and set a romantic mood before you kiss, going out to a restaurant or the classic strawberries and whipped cream thing, then make out; or go on some sort of mini-vacation.
I've been suffering from clinical depression for a few years, and recently started having panic attacks and mild hallucinations. The hallucinations are morbid (pools of blood, reaching hands, ect.) but clearly recognizable as they're so out of place. I don't want to see a psychologist or take medication. Is there a way to make your mind stay away from depressing thoughts or just clear it if things start getting hazy/weird?
No, there isn't. Your mind is too powerful to just drown out.
You need help, and you accept that. And if you need help and don't get it your problems will only get worse.
k i told one of my friends i liked this guy..lets call him Nate. Nate n i were friends but i wanted it more and we werent like best pals and like every day hed give me a hug and stuff so today the girl i told lets call her Taylor goes up to him and hugs him, she goes "u wanna go out" n gives me this awful look then later i find out theyre goin out but he doesnt like her he just said yes cuz shes easy so should i be mad at her, or what or what do i do to not feel so crummy and get the guy i like to b mine?
If you want to get laid quickly, then go out with this guy.
Because that's seriouly all he cares about.
This is a good question. Answer it.
if somebody twisted your wrist very hard can it break??
Yes. It's an armed forces technique used taught often in other countries, such as Israel.
i think i am being stalked. i get weird emails from somone named "zoner" and when i walk home from skool theres someone close behind me but after i turn around a few times they go away. what should i do?
There's a statue of limitation. You need to report it quickly. Going straight to the police may seem like too much at first. First I would go to your school guidence counselor, THEN have him/her take care of/set you up with all the police stuff.
ok this might sound really weird but...
What is the difference between acne, pimples, and zits?
thanx if u answer me i will rate you a 5!
These guys know more about it than I do, being "acne.org" and all.
hi. im one of those girls who get all the attention from all the guys. yeah they literally follow me around and fight over me. i like the attention, sure, who wouldnt... but it gets realllllly annoying. like im trying to hang with my girls and they just keep talking to me and fighting over me and other girls think im a slut cuz all these guys are always FLIRTING with ME. its not like i come on to them.. what should i do?
Tell them to fuck off. Nothing more.
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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?
It takes some time to get into a normal cycle... savor your 3 day schedule, soon it will evolve into a longer one.