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i am in love with my best friend. all my friends tell me that they think he likes me. one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said "no, not in that way" but when my friend told him that he should just ask me out he said that he didn't want to. i am kinda confused because i love this kid and i don't think he knows if he likes me or not, although he did say he didn't want a girlfriend right now. i think that maybe he is afraid that sumthing will happen and we will break up and then never be friends again. i dont know what to do because my feelings for him are so strong. i just dont know what to do.please help me.i am sooo desperate for advice and anyone who responds to this i will be so grateful and i will try to keep in touch if you want me to.

~*~in need of help!!!!!!!!~*~ (link)
ok i have this guy friend that i am the same with. i mean he is my best friend!!! and i dunno whats going on. do i like him does he like me. maybe we should talk to the guy on the comp and ask them whats going on! easier said then dun right. i have no idea. whatever u do tell me cause ill wanna try it .

i was wondering if me and my bestfriend should go out. we liked eachother befour but we didnt know we liked eachother.Are friendship is unstopable.mybe it could work out as boyfriend and girl friend.could it? (link)
hey ,
ok well if u and him really like each other then say something but i (nowing me) probly wouldnt because it could screw up ur great friend ship and u would act weird around him or vica verca

im in love with this girl, i mean like IM IN LOVE.
but i dont know if she likes me. i have gone out places with her, like football games and shit. but i just dont know. shes really hot and its the first person ive felt this way about, i mean sure ive liked girls but not like this. i seem to never know when to kiss a girl or hold their hand or put my arm around them, its just sumthing i dont know, when do i do any of those things!?!?!
plz answer me ill rate a 5! (link)
you now what i think its great that you now u r in love with someone. dont worry about the hand and kissing things when it happens its like you dont really now its going to happen. sometimes when u think its the right time to kiss her then just go for it dont even think about it

My 15 yr old boyfriend is on vacation with his friend. Every time we talk he's always busy and says for me to call him back. He's also being a little rude to me and acting like we're not even going out. I'm trying to play off as a vacation thing. He's trying to have fun, maybe flirt a bit, etc. Do you think he's acting this way just because he's away, with his friend, wanting to talk to its some sort of 'phase' right now? I know when he comes back it'll be different and he'll be back to his old self though. (link)
it maybe a thing he hase. no boy wants to talk to his girlfriend while being on vacation with the guys. he maye want them to think hes cool cause he told you to call him back. if it wherre me i would stop calling him. he mite just call u

im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~ (link)
its not like hes 20 years older then u. its not that big of a dill if hes only 2 or 3 years older

I just wanted ideas of things I can do to keep myself busy this summer. I was dating this guy 'sonic'(we have been on and off since january, he was my ex)and tonight we 'broke up' (we weren't really OFFICIAL but dating) even though I have feelings for him and i feel kinda sad i'm ready to move on. any ideas?

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you should get out more. try to find a new boyfriend. go to movies. just get out w/ friends. that will take your head out of the clouds

OK, I really like this guy, a lot like i cant stop thinking about him no matter what people tell me about him, like it doesnt even matter to me, but like, im not sure if he REALLY likes me, hes never said like "i like you" as cheesy as Im sure that would sound, but, hes always wanting to do stuff (btw i just asked another question earlier sorry :-/ ) and like, im okay with it, but how do i tell him that i dont want to take it too far unless were in a relationship? (link)
If i were u you wana know what i would do. I would talk to him, i would ask him if he liked me and if we where goinging out.

Okay im like 12 and i have this boyfriend that we'll call danny, i wanna kiss him so bad but i don't wanna make the move. I want him to. What should i do? I really love him!
-wanna kiss
i rate real good! (link)
Your knda to young to know what love is. But i think you should make the moves. If not just play it cool eventually he will kiss u hes just not shure if you like him like that or just not ready or doesnt want to

ok..there is this guy, and ive gone out with him a couple times now, but then he dumped me the last time for no reason. i tell people im over him, but im really not. and when im w/ him he makes it seem like he still likes me, but then online hes really mean to me and will just start yelling at me for no reason?? what should i do?..

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im not going to tell u to move on what u should do is get a different boyfriend and be love in front of him.He mite want you back

okay so i was really really close friend with my x we'll call him t.j so i was really close to tj b4 we went out then one day he asked me out and of course i said yes! and we went out for like 3 weeks (not that long) but i was then end of the school year and i didn't want a bf over the summer so i broke up with him. but now when i look back i really miss all the things he used to say and do for me! i really miss him alot now!! and i want him back! but everytime i try to call him the line is always busy cuz his sis talks alot on the phone! so wut do i do? (link)
you now maybe he moved on. does he have a girlfriend? if he doesnt you should ask him out again what are you going to lose. anyways you should move on just in case he says no

I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring.. (link)
Well some people have different type of skin so i cant tell u what to use . I use stride x but that will not work for u. did u see your doc? if not you should. maybe you need the procriptied type.

My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
You never now how he fells. His friends think your protective but sometimes the boyfriend likes to be free and to be his own boss. maybe you should talk to him instead of his friends.If you already did then you should..... Hey something i would do would be to try it myself but like in front of him like i now what im doing. Maybe he will tell u to stop and you could show him how u fell about what he is doing. sometimes that works.

im 14 and this may sound weird but i've liked one of my best friends ive known since kindy, since 2nd grade. i told him i was in love with him and he didnt really seem to care. then he started dating this one chick, and it bothered me but what could i do? so when they broke up i asked him out and he turned me down. and now hes got this new girlfriend who hes like in love with. and i love him with all my heart but he just wants to be my friend. what should i do? should i just be his friend or continue competeing for his attention and his heart? (link)
Ive it were me i would just be friends with him. You never now he may not be into u like that. Just go with the flow, maybe later ask him again

Lately my dad has been wanting to spend time with me, and for some reason I just really don't want to. I don't know why, but I feel uncomfortable. Like, he asked me to go to lunch, and I just said "I'll think about it", and then without telling him I went to a friends house, and slept over PAST the next days lunchtime, just to AVOID being asked again. What's my problem? I mean...I still like the guy, but I really want to b left alone. And lately, I've been liking my mom more. Pleeease help me!!! Thanks. (link)
Your dad is trying hared for you to like him.Old people are like that. My dad calls me his girl friend. some nights we have what we call dates and go see a something.Just give the man try.

Since of late i havent been really happy anymore with my bf, so i talked to him about it today and we decided to take a break. It didnt kick in yet that i was now seperated from him for awhile but as im writing this ... im starting to realize that maybe i shouldnt have done that.
I said i needed a break becuz i wasnt happy and i wasnt sure if i really wanted to be with him and even though this feeling was on and off... 75% of the time i was feeling that i needed a break so thats why i took it. I needed time to figure out if being with him was what i really wanted.
IM so scared of losing him but becuz we are taking a break we arent talking and im scared to admit that maybe i was wrong . Yet im also scared to go back with him and find that i really did need the break.
What should i do? (link)
All couples need a time apart. You need your space. True love hase to be found. sometimes its not black and white. are you geting my point. Sometimed you dont know you love someone tell you experince it. I think it was right. when you are ready get back togther

so my good friend jack is going out w/ my x-girlfriend and they are IN LOVE. well me and his gf Liz are still good friends and we always tell each other that we look good if we do. well yesturday @ my bday party i texted her saying she looked really good....cuz she did. well Jack read that text and now hes really mad @ me. but he knows thats how we are so i dont see why hes mad. someone help! please!

*text guy* (link)

dont you think he should get the picture that hes her girlfriend and you and her are just good friends you need to tell him that

There's this girl that likes my boyfriend a lot... She always tries to break us up and she won't take no for an answer... He says that he doesn't like her but whenever I'm talking to him online he ignores me most of the time to talk to her... Do you think maybe he likes her, or do you think he's just trying to get her off his case? (15/f) (link)
hey you now what hes probly yelling ay her to stop bothering you so that he can be with you in peace

hey! umm well ive bin with my bf for 10 months now and like i love him more then anything!! hes 19 nd im 15 and i no he loves me tooo but like i dunno just all of a sudden it feels werid like i feel like were fallin apart and i dont want that to happen cuz i love him more then anything!! i reeli need sum adice on like wut to do cuz i reeli dont wanna lose him, he meens everything to me!! plz help!! maybee we just need sum tyme alone..or sumthin i dunno just plz tell me wut i think!!! =( (link)

If there is some falling apart i think its because you are to young to know you love someone. you should see othere people, but still see him like friends because you dont wanna lose him i just think you are to young for him, and to know what love really is

okay i like this guy awhole lot! and hes been on vaca for awhile now.. and EVERYDAY he calls or texts messages me. his text messages are like "you just ran through my mind. i just wanted to say hey." and junk like that.. does this mean he likes me back? (link)
he really likes you..!! maybe you should ask him out!!

I am sure that this auestion has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.

My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined? (link)

ok this is a hared one.I thing you should bring it up like a wanna go see a movie with me sometime, like nothing. She may wanna date you but hase a problem asking you as well.

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