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  • hey i love your advice column! ok i have a huge question...what are somethings that i can do(actions) to make my bf want to kiss me more?

    Thanks for the compliment! And thanks for asking me a question, I'm honored =b

    There are only two ways to get him to kiss you more.

    One is to give huge signs and turn him on. lol.

    Give him a great big hug! Press your body against his. Look deeply into his eyes and keep your face close to his. I'm sure he'll get the sign. You can caress his face, his back, his legs, etc lol. Gently pet his hair and run your fingers through it. Say sweet words. Hold hands. Tell him you love him. Kiss his hand. Get his attention, look into his eyes, glance at his lips, and look into his eyes again and smile at him. Kiss his cheek, kiss his forehead. And try kissing him in his ear. Sounds weird, but it feels good. lol. Same goes for the neck. Kiss his nose. lol. You can pretend your finger is hurting and ask him to kiss it. Then you can tell him your lips hurt too. haha. There are many signs of affection that will make him want to kiss you.

    Good breath will definitely make him want to kiss you more, lol. Gum and breath sprays are good, but mints are even better because they dissolve quickly (I don't think your bf would want to kiss you while you're eating gum =b and who would want to pull out a big bottle of breath spray in public anyway? lol) and you can just pop them in when you think you need one.

    Play some "kissing games" with your boyfriend. They're fun and he'll get into kissing more. You can get some ideas for kissing games by searching "kissing games" on

    If you want to try something new eat some candy. The taste stays on your tongue and he'll love the sweetness and flavor of it. lol. I was eating starbursts at the movies once and we kissed a lot. We were so into the movie, it was great *sarcasm* lol. Ever since then he still remembers that time at the movies and he still enjoys it. lol.

    The second option is to...go for it yourself! Just give him those signs I mentioned above and be the first to initiate the kiss. I'm sure he'll like having you be the dominant chick. If you want something, you gotta just get it yourself, lol.

    Hope I helped you and I hope your kissing goes well ;)

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    lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him? i really like this new guy. its just that i've been thinking about the first one. maybe, its b/c he represents a happy time in my life or hes very special to me or something. i dunno. do i still like him in a way?

    I don't think people are exaggerating when they say you can never forget your first love. What you're going through is normal.

    Dating is all about trying things out, finding out what you want, and bonding with someone. If it doesn't work out you move on and look for what you really want. Give this new guy a chance and maybe he can fill that space in your heart. You will never forget your first love, but that doesn't mean there isn't room for someone else to fill your heart.

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    ok i like my b/f but i never REALLY REALLY liked him okay hes really nice and all its like i like the b/f thing just not the boy....... i mean ther is nothing there n e more well i kinda wanna break it off w/ him but like my friends dont want me 2 and our 1 month aniversary was monday and he bought me diamond earings i no weird 13 year olds wer do we get this money ?! n e way i have 4 classes with him... i wanna break up with him but i dont no if i should b/c i dont wanna make him feel bad and i just dont wanna go o/ w/ him n e more! so should i break it off with him or not and if i do how should i do it?

    You need to make up your mind...Either break up with him NOW or wait it out and give him a chance. My reason for saying this is if you keep leading him on and he buys you all of this expensive stuff, it's really going to hurt when you break up with him. So you need to stop it all now or let some time sink into your relationship.

    If you want to wait it out and give him a chance, try to spend more time with him. Invite him out and get to know him better. Tell him all of your thoughts. Find things you two have in common.

    If you decide to break up with him just tell him how you feel. He will want to know why you broke up with him. I would probably give back those diamond earrings because he might think you want to gyp him or something. You guys can still be friends. If he doesn't want to be friends anymore, then you know he wasn't that great of a guy anyway.

    We learn everything from our mistakes...and this time you should have learned that you shouldn't date a guy you don't have strong feelings for in the first place. But even if it turns out you don't have strong feelings for him, don't feel bad. Dating is all about trying things out, finding out what you want, and bonding with someone. If it doesn't work out you move on and look for what you really want. Good luck with your boyfriend!

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    lately, i've felt really sad, and i've felt all alone. i'm 8th grade/f, and i feel like a guy could fill up a space :( what can i do??
    -all alone-

    My brother is twenty three and he still hasn't found love. I'm not sure if he ever will because he pushes away everything and thinks marriage is stupid. That doesn't mean his life is worthless. You don't have to get married just to be happy. There are many people out there that are not married. Your life doesn't have to revolve around a man. And if you have excellent friends you can live life happily without being tied down to a guy.

    The truth is, we never know when we will find our true love. Some find it later in love and some may never find it. The only thing we can do about that is not base our lives on boyfriends and girlfriends. We need to enjoy life despite what we don't have. Everyone has lots of things they wish they had.

    What you need to do is not worry. Just be yourself and be happy. You will find the right guy someday and you shouldn't feel bad about yourself just because he hasn't arrived yet.

    With excellent friends, you shouldn't need to worry 24/7 about getting a boy. With excellent friends, you don't even need a man to make you happy! Keep yourself busy. Go out with your friends, volunteer, community service, school activities, clubs, read, cook, clean, watch movies, all of that! It'll make you feel good, and you won't spend your time moping around all the time about a guy. It'll work. Happiness doesn't come right away, we have to work for it.

    You're young. Live life!

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    well im 15 and i dated this guy about a year ago and we broke up cuz he cheated on me. well not physically but he talked to sum girl over the phone told her he loved her and mad panns to hook up with her..while we were going out.(which never actually happened)..well its been about a year...we stayed friends but not very close..and he wants to go bac out...should i try again or let him go?..he broke my heart once do u think he wll do it again? is he telling th truth that he really care...or does he just want sex? why did he wit so long?...theres so much that i dont plez

    My advice to you would be NOT to go back out with him.

    What kind of boyfriend tells some other chick over the phone he loves her and wants to hook up with her? That's just low and sad.

    If you guys are friends and you are still not very close, what makes you think being in a relationship with him will make you even closer? I like the friends first theory...relationships are better when you are friends first because you will have already had a close connection. If you guys aren't that close friends right now you probably wouldn't be better off in a relationship.

    Your ex has cheated on you, and that means he can do it again. I don't think you'd want that to happen right? If he really cares about you he'll still be your good friend even if you decide not to go out with him. A good boyfriend should care about your feelings. Your ex however, has hurt you. That shows he's not a very good boyfriend. You can go back out with him if that's what you choose, but I'd urge you to do the opposite and stay away from a relationship with him to avoid heartaches.

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    i like this guy and he is sweet, attractive, and is so nice. He's funny and tall. One problem, got a girlfriend. He is so sweet tho and he pays more attention to me then his gf even tho i'm only his friend. Too bad his gf is my friend but not a really good one. He always flirts with me and i flirt back but is this ok?

    My honest opinion: It's NOT okay. Think of it this way, would YOU like to have YOUR boyfriend be flirting around with someone else? That'd be hurtful doncha agree? He and his girlfriend are going out so they probably have a strong attraction in the first place. I don't think it'd be a good idea to try and break it up. Just stay friends with him and stay far away from flirting with him.

    And here's another way to look at it. If he flirts with someone else while he has a girlfriend of his own, what makes you think he can't do that if YOU were his girlfriend?

    So either way, it might be best to just keep out of it. Good luck!

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    My mom wants me to be a total conformist: make-up, trendy clothes, dumb girl for a regular guy: you know. I really don't want to because it is so not me but she doesn't care. What do I do?

    We have so many fake people in the world. It's kind of funny how PARENTS are sometimes the cause of it. You need to sit down with her and explain how you feel. Something like "I feel more comfortable without make-up. I like wearing comfortable clothes. You should support me if it's what I really want. Make-up and etc hide who you really are. Do you really want a guy to love me just because I have a beautiful, fake face? Everyone has their own taste, and that includes me. Please don't force me into doing something I absolutely don't believe in taking the effort to do." Lol, nice little speech going on. I hope your mom listens. I know how mothers sometimes can't hear anyone else but themselves. Good luck.

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    there is this girl named Courtney and she as a crush on my boyfriend. Well he has track with her and sits with her at lunch sometimes. Well she knows me and him are going out and she flirted with him right infront of me yesterday and then has the nerve to talk shit about me and give me dirty looks! Well me and her got into it but it was only words being said. My boyfriend yelled at me for yelling at her! He said that if I hit her at all that me and him are done! We I don't know what I should do.. its complicated! Please help!

    .: Miss Confused :.

    I HATE people that just don't understand the meaning of boyfriend and girlfriend. It means they're friggin TAKEN, not open for sale.

    You need to talk to her ASAP and tell her what's up. Don't yell and go crazy. Just calmly tell her you love your boyfriend and you don't want anything to come between your relationship. Ask her to stop flirting with him because it makes you very insecure and uncomfortable.

    I understand why your boyfriend said if you hit her the relationship is over. Think of it this way...who would want an abusive girlfriend that is too protective? So do not get violent and do not try to use bad words and etc.

    That doesn't mean you should let it be though. Make sure this girl stops hitting on your man, calmly. Key word is 'calmly'. Also, you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you are feeling. You probably can't get Courtney out of his life completely, but you can try to get him to keep his distance a little bit more from her. If he does nothing about this situation, I don't think he's as great as you thought he was. A good boyfriend will care about your feelings.

    Personally, my boyfriend is really sweet and really cares about our relationship so he has made an effort to talk to this girl (She's a slut, attention whore, and a huge flirt) I dislike VERY much as less as possible.

    Just remember that every girl that may cause some trouble between you and your boyfriend is a TEST. Either way, you WIN and SHE loses. If your boyfriend goes for her, then you know he's not the right one and that she gets an unreliable guy. If he stays with you, you know you have found the right guy and she lost. See? It's all good. I discovered this when the girl I dislike (the one I mentioned above) caused some trouble for me. I hope it all works out.

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    hi im 15 and i have long hair, like every other guy at school. but it looks really bad, like its always messed up when i wake up. it looks good with a hat on, but without nething..*twitch* ne ideas to what i can do to make it look good in like 5-10 minutes? thx

    There's really nothing you can do to fix long hair in only 5-10 minutes, unless you wanna try putting gel and hair products in your hair. My boyfriend used to have longish hair and it went crazy in the mornings so he took showers before he went to school. You could try blowdrying it with a comb/brush or just letting it dry naturally. And you could try brushing your hair, lol. If nothing works you might as get a hair cut. What's the point of having long hair if it looks bad anyway? Have fun with your hair =b

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    ok so i like this guy ALOT we hold hands at school and are togteher all the time. he likes me alot too. hes so sweet. but we BOTH jsut got out of long relationships and don't want a relationship right now. but its practically like we are going out. and EVERYONE is asking BOTH of us.. "do you like her??" "do you like him??" "i heard u like him..are you going out!?" like seriously soo much people...people i barely even KNOW..its getting soo annoying. i usualy just say yea i do...but its getting super annoying. how can this stop..i dont want to be rude or make it seem like i dont like him but people need to mind their own freaking business!

    You shouldn't be bothered by other people. If you like the guy and you wanna hold hands with him, just do it. Even though it may get annoying getting asked all the time about your love life, it's only because people are naturally curious. Who wouldn't be? You should be honored getting so much attention lol.

    I was in the same position as you. I held hands with this guy (who is now my almost five month boyfriend! lol) and we were not going out. It made everyone wonder and I got questions daily, no exaggeration. People I didn't know (I didn't even know their names) knew about him and me. lol. It got annoying, but it was nothing to get upset about.

    There are only two ways to get it to stop. Just wait it out until everyone's tired of talking about you and him. If you want to keep your relationship with him as it is, then that's fine. It's your choice and you shouldn't let anyone change your mind. Or you can go out with him and the questions with cease. Coming out of a relationship is hard, but getting into one is wonderful, doncha think? Dating is all about trying new things. And if it doesn't work, you move on and find what you really want.

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    I don't know why but I am scared of love, but I want it so bad. I am 19 and have still never had a boyfriend or even a first kiss because I want my first kiss to be special. I am considered an attractive girl and guys like me and I like them too but I won't let anything happen because I personally feel like I don't carry enough self-confidence which my friends get angry about. I think I worry about life in general and I'm scared that I'll just end up alone forever. What should I do?

    You don't have to worry about being lonely for the rest of your life! You are only nineteen. You have plenty of time to find your soul mate. But the first step you need to take is to love yourself and not worry about what people think about you. If you don't want to get involved with someone because you're worried about how the relationship will turn out or if you'll kiss horribly, or etc, you're MISSING OUT. The whole point of dating is to gain more experience, bond with someone, find out what you want in a relationship, and find your soul mate. It doesn't always have to work out at first. Just go for it.

    My brother is twenty three and he still hasn't found love. I'm not sure if he ever will because he pushes away everything and thinks marriage is stupid. That doesn't mean his life is worthless. You don't have to get married just to be happy. There are many people out there that are not married. Your life doesn't have to revolve around a man. And if you have excellent friends you can live life happily without being tied down to a guy.

    So whether you find someone or not, you will be happy, as long as you try to be and work for it.

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    hey, you seem good at giving advice for relationships, i was wondering...i have this boyfriend right now and we're both in 8th grade and highschool's just around the corner but theres a problem, we're going to diff. schools and we dont wanna end it but i already have boys after me like crazy. i dont wanna break up with him bcz he means the world to me but..i'm afriad we're both gonna find someone new! what should i do? I'm so confused.

    I think you should definitely continue going out with him. Enjoy the time together while you can. It is better to have love and lost than to never have loved at all. If you two DO find new people in high school (I hope it doesn't happen though), don't be afraid to break it off. There is not rule that says you can only date one person for the rest of your life. Dating is about bonding with someone and finding what you like and don't like and finding your soul mate. Plus, you never know if you'll find someone new in high school for sure anyway, so better to take a chance.

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    So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie?

    Tell him you definitely value him as a friend, but nothing more. Say it gently, but firmly so he will get the idea. You might want to tell him why you don't feel the same way about him because he'll be wondering why.

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    Ok, i think i have the flu, and i keep coughing and my nose is all stuffy, but i don't have allergies. Would this be the flu? I already got my flu shot i thought though, so i wasn't sure... Anyway, does anybody know good ways to get rid of it fast? I an having a party in a week, and dont want to be sick for it. I tried all sorts of medicines, not all at the same time, but they just make me sleepy, and dont get rid of the cold. What else can i do? I've been drinking a lot of fluids. 14/f btw.

    It could be the flu or just a cold. Whichever one you have, you should try medicine that says "non-drowsy" so you don't get sleepy. Medicine doesn't work right away so it'll take time. Drinking fluids is good...get in a lot of warm water and orange juice. Soup of course. Be sure to eat even if you're not hungry. If your throat hurts you can try drinking hot water with squeezed lemon or line WITH the shell and honey mixed together. Doesn't taste very good, but it works. lol. Get lots of bed rest and sleep.

    By the way, just because you get a flu shot doesn't mean you won't get any flus. I learned that thanks to Biology class lol. Every sickness we get is a different one and you never get the same one again. Getting a flu shot is just a vaccination for one flu that doctors think most people are likely to catch this season.

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    Help guys,

    ok, i like my neighbor alot..but he has a girl friend. I have started talkin to him and hes taken me on his 4wheeler before and i really thought he liked me cause monday over spring break(when it rained)and he took me down to the landing in our town and we just sat and talked lookin at the water and then he taught me how to drive his 4wheeler and it was really really nice. haha and i really thought he was into me cause he kept looking at me evrytime i looked at him. but the thing is, ive told his sis i like him and like he has never made and effort to contact me, im doin all the givin, i havnt talked to him in about two weeks and when ive seen him, i act like hes not there. but i dont know what to do now, i really want to talk to him but....its so complicated. can anyone help?*
    14 female:.

    I really think he was just trying to be friends with you. There's nothing bad about being friends with a great guy right? You say he has not contacted you. This is probably because he has a girlfriend of his own and he probably loves her very much. Don't try to break inbetween him and his girlfriend. You've only started talking to him, and you're not even sure if he has feelings for you. If you had a great boyfriend I'm sure you wouldn't want another girl to break you two up right? You'll find someone else, someone who's perfect for YOU, so don't worry about it. Be happy and relax!

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    Ok, so there is this guy that I met online a few years ago. But we didn't really talk until around last Thanksgiving. He lives in North Carolina and I live in Minnesota. We've talked every single day on the computer and on the phone since Thanksgiving. I want to be with him so bad. But im only 15 and I have school right now. And there's like no possible way I can see him. It's getting to the point, where it's like hurting me. I'm aching to see him. I love him so much and have never had these kind of feelings for somebody before. I lay in bed every single night for hours thinking about him and crying. Somebody help. I really need it.

    First thing's first. You need to STOP cutting yourself. You won't get anywhere if you don't love yourself first. I have had a few friends that were cutters. Please take this seriously when I say, Get Professional Help. Counselors, therapists, whatever. It really did help them stop cutting. I know you're hurting a lot, but hurting yourself physically will not make you any better. Getting help will help you heal emotionally and physically. It's not stupid, it's what real people get in order to get better. I'm sure there are teen support groups you could join.

    Now on to your online guy. You have not met him in person yet? Hmm...Before you make ANY big decisions MEET the guy. People lie about themselves everyday. It's even a bigger risk when you can't SEE the person. I would understand why your father does not want you to move in with him. You are only fifteen. But not only that, it's a dangerous decision for anyone of ANY age, not just a 15 year old. I know you won't believe me, but you can't be sure it's love.

    Wanting someone so badly and crying over them is not irregular...many girls experience it. This doesn't mean it is love. I think you are just lonely, really in need of someone to there for you. I think your needs are getting in the way of your mind. And that's why you think you love this guy.

    Don't think you are alone...everyone has pain. And believe it or not there are millions of people that have it worse than you. There are so many people who never got to experience life and had their life end. We need to enjoy life for the people that will never get to experience it.

    I'm not saying you 100% don't love this guy. I'm saying that there is a 50 percent chance you love him and you don't. Just for now, look at him as a FRIEND. Work it up for there. Don't jump a cliff and declare it's love and move in with the guy. You said things are too bad right now for you to meet up with him...well, there's nothing you can do about that. You either need to get over him, or realize that this is not the best time and you need to wait until the timing is right and you are older.

    One way to get out of your depression and want for seeing him is to get BUSY. Some things you can do are volunteer, do community service, help the elderly, go out to the park, join some clubs, meet new friends, cook, clean, read, watch movies, etc. Getting busy will leave no time for you to cut yourself and feel sorry for yourself and feel sad. You'll feel good doing something and helping others. You'll meet some new people and friends on the way. It'll keep your mind off of that guy. Focus on school and get those straight A's. They're definitely make you feel good, but also you'll be on your way to scholarships and awesome careers. Happiness doesn't come right away, we have to work for it.

    Life is hard, but we gotta keep moving. Haven't you ever wondered what your future would be like? Haven't you ever wondered what life is all about? You won't ever find the answers unless you get out there and do something about it.

    I know when you are depressed and hurt, you don't want to listen to others. But I really do hope you try at least one thing I mentioned. I really did try to help you, so please don't think I'm trying to put you down or I'm full of crap. The only way to help yourself is to admit you have a problem and are open to fixing it.

    Your online guy does not have to be THE ONE. There are millions of guys out there and you might find your soul mate. The truth is though, some people find true love later and some never find it. The only thing we can do about that is accept it, and not wait for a man to arrive. We gotta live life. Men do not have to be the center of our worlds. Find some new friends you can click with and are there for you the whole way. With excellent friends you don't need a man to make you happy. Enjoy life, make your dreams come true.

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    My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up?

    I wouldn't ask him about it without him bringing it up because he might get all mad and say you were eavesdropping. I hope you can work things out with your bestfriend.

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    Picture this:
    There's a 7th grade girl and her 8th grader boyfriend alone in the hall at the end of the school day. His mom gives her a ride home so they're waiting on her to arrive. They start teasing each other and wrestling around and find themselves in the perfect position to kiss. They stare into each others' eyes for a momment, neither having kissed anyone before. The girl turns away with sudden fear.
    What do you think the girl (me) was scared of? I wanted to... I just was nervous for some reason. Also, what do you think my boyfriend thought? We've been going out 5 months and never kissed. I need advice on how to overcome my fear of my first kiss or whatever I'm so scared of.I also would like to know what you think my boyfriend might have been feeling. I don't understand boys... lol. Thanks!

    How can you have a boyfriend and not understand boys? lol. You should talk to him about how he felt when you turned away from a kiss.

    Before I went out with my boyfriend I was afraid of getting "intimate". That was part of the reason why I didn't say yes to him. I postponed my answer for a But then finally we were going out. We hugged and held hands, but that was it. One day, he was going to kiss me. Before I even took the time to think, I had a rip of fear going through me and I refused his lips and kissed his cheek instead. I did this AGAIN a few times without wanting to. Finally one day, he was trying to kiss me again, and I kissed him back. It all happened so quick, but I was so relieved and happy.

    I think you should share your first kiss with your boyfriend. It will definitely relieve you of any fears. I think you were just afraid of how your first kiss would go. Don't think about the negatives...think about the positives. Just let it happen. Kissing is just another way to show your affections for someone.

    Your boyfriend probably might feel a little rejected, so you need to talk to him. If you just don't feel ready, just tell him how you feel and he'll understand. If he's in love with you he can wait until you are ready.

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    ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!

    That is not weird. In school, age seems like a big deal ONLY because age is separated by grades. But once you are out of school, age is nothing! Think about the married couples that have a five or ten year age difference! Age has definitely not come between their love. If you really like him, you won't care about his age.

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    I kno Im to yung, but I had sex wit my bf like 3 months aftr we went out and I didnt wanna do it but he prssurd me into it, so we did it. Now I unno wat to do but I like him a lot and I dun wanna break up wit him but he keeps makin me do it! Wat shud i do?

    There is no excuse for having sex, unless he raped you. If that's the case you need to tell someone NOW. You are in serious danger. Otherwise, you will ALWAYS have a choice and you can ALWAYS say NO. Just because you "like him a lot" doesn't mean you should have sex with him. If you two break up just because you don't want to have sex, at least you know he was not worth it. A boyfriend should be there for love and support, not just for sex. There are many other guys out there. It's all about trying and if it doesn't work out, at least you gained one new peice of knowledge. Sex can lead to STDs and pregnancy. I don't think you want either.

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