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Hello Dear
Sooner or later m ganna hv full sex wit her
evn though she is nt ready 4 it, what i mean is how to make it easy approach.? any suggestion ?
Me2 i dnt wanna make my own way. Bcz i cnt take any longer wit tis disire.
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Hi there,
Please ask this again, using real words. Nobody is going to take you serious when you ask a question written like this.
Thank you.
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Hola!
I read your story. I am new to this site...i randomly fell into it while doing some research. I decided to register just to connect with you!
First, how does this note find you? How are you? I really hope you are doing better. ☺ My name is Natalia (i live in California, but i was born in Argentina). Nanickore, You have PURPOSE, GREAT purpose in this life. You weren't just born, just to be born. You life is worth it to this world. To me. And to your family. And to God. You were uniquely made, embellished by The One Creator, Jesus Christ -- who is MADLY (very much) in love with you. And who is also completely heart-broken b/ someone has STOLEN the identity, the pureness, the joy that he instilled in his very own child— you. He meticulously thought of you and created you, even before you were born! This same Creator, Jesus Christ, is also The REDEEMER/RESTORER. What does this mean? Everything that you lost, that someone took away from you, he will RESTORE it: You self-worth, your identity, your family, your friends, and most importantly your... Spirit/soul. You will be and feel like those younger days when it was “full of hope and perspectives.”
There is an enemy out there whose sole job is to Steal, Kill and Destroy (John 10:10). He will plan and use anyone to do this. And that very sick person who abused you as a child, was manipulated by this enemy. The devil. He hates humans. He wants them destroyed. He will do anything to robe, abuse and distort your mind and soul (hence, “Steal”)…to the point that you hate yourself... to eventually not want to live (Kill & Destroy). He lies to you! Tells you are dirty. Worthles. There is no solution for you. Youre not going to get better. He will blind you (2 Corinthians 4:6 “the god of this age”= Devil). BUT, there is GOOD NEWS: the weapon to beat and destroy this enemy in a way that he will no longer have control over your life….and that is through The Bible- The Word of Life. He runs from it. He flees like a coward when you declare the word of God in your life! And little by little as you nourish your spirit with words of life, God is nourishing you out of the brokenness, and restoring you with Hope, Future……. and perspectives! Because Jesus came so that you may have life. Real Life! (John 10:10). Because that is exactly his PROMISE to you: “ For I know the plans I have for YOU (Nanickore], plans to give you HOPE and a Future, WHEN you seek me, you will SEEK ME with ALL your HEART.”(Jeremiah 29:11 & Luke 11:9) He is a God that CAN’T break his promises. You are the perfect person for God to use to RESTORE. You know how many people will find HOPE in Him through your story!? Wow. Many people! He cant use people who are perfect. What is there to fix? What do they need? Nothing.
This is not religion. These are true words. He heals and restores the broken. He is just asking from you: "can i do this for you? I am here...just give me a chance. Let me show my greatness in your weakness. Through your brokenness, my name will be glorify. I will put you back together piece by piece. I love you, Son. And I am sorry for what they have done to you. But I am bringing justice to your life. Just look up to me. Seek me. And you will find me. I wont let you down, Nanickore"
Restoration comes through declaring the Word of God, Prayer, and Believing = It Constructs your Faith =) (Philipians 4: 6-7)
I'll be more than happy to be a mentor to you. We can skype, email. However, you'd like.
Email: baclini@yahoo.com
God Bless You!
-Natalia b. (link)
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Please tell me what user you meant this to go to. They have their inbox restricted to registered users only.
Thank you.
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respected sir i have one question which is worrying me,,,i need counselling,,,is this service is free (link)
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This service is free. Everyone here is a volunteer. There are no paid counsellors, so what you will get is regular people's advice.
You may ask whatever you wish, and people will try to help you in whatever way they can.
Thank you.
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my wife has low sexual drive or interest, what could be the cause from the age 24years and she is currently 44 years old? (link)
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All I can tell you, from my own experience, is that my ex started a new birth control pill once, that caused her to not only completely lose interest in sex, but turn her into an uncaring emotionless zombie as well.
This may be emotional, physical or simply be a hormone imbalance that is possible to correct.
You should REALLY go to the doctor together and sort this out. A cold, sexless marriage is an almost unbearable thing, I know, from experience, and you must love her with all your heart to have put up with this for 20 years.
I hope she knows how much you love her.
Now is way past time to fix this, if possible. The answer may be very simple, and you will feel like you have a new life together if you handle this.
I wish you both the best.
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I have a cold sore on my penis head. Could this be herpes or something else? (link)
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I am sorry to tell you this:
Cold sores are caused by one of the two common Herpes viruses.
You must NOT have sexual contact with anyone who doesn't agree, in advance, that they are willing to get herpes from you in order to be with you. Just like the person who gave this present to you... they didn't say: "Hey, you want bleeding puss filled sores on your penis, when you least expect them, for the rest of your life?" before they gave you this... but I'll bet you wish they had, right?
I am sorry this happened to you. :-(
Now is a good time to talk with your doctor and see about managing the symptoms of herpes. The sooner you handle this, the better off you are going to be. Maybe you are wrong about it being a cold sore? Best to let the doctor make sure.
I know you are probably feeling like it is, but your life isn't over. There are MANY people in your situation. So many, in fact that there are multiple places to meet singles with herpes.
... after you talk with your doctor, you might want to have a look at some of those sites. Even if you just find someone in the same position to talk with about this, that would be a great thing.
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You are VERRY pretty and nice so I want to ask if you want to go out with me (link)
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Going to take a wild guess you didn't mean this to go to me? The user you meant this to go to doesn't accept inbox messages from unregistered users, so it ended up here.
I am assuming you know the person in real life, right? Otherwise this probably isn't the best way to do this. Who is going to go out with a random stranger they know nothing about, right?
Just a thought.
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just wanteveryone to know, i got banned for bein onemonth too young , ya i know youveheard this alot but get this, i got banned for 8 years!!!! yeah, this sites just... ugh. (link)
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It is the law, not this site.
When you signed up, you swore you were over 13.
You lied, you got banned. It isn't like we want to ban you, it is a federal law in the USA.
Nothing we could do about it if we wanted to. If you look at the TOS for EVERY big site, every forum, etc, you will see they all have the same statement about user ages that are allowed.
The account you had closed now, wasn't your first account, was it? You knew better, and you did it again.
Please stop breaking the law.
Maybe we will see you when you are legally allowed to use the site. Then it won't be a problem.
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I am a web developer and ever since these distatseful accusations came online, i have had depleted clients willing to work with me and have lost a handful of the little i have in my stead. I was thinking of attacking these web owners personally or messing with their info websites, but need advice on what best i can do to get it all over with. I need to get back my clients without this infosite existing on the web anymore? Can you help me? (link)
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Yes, I can help you.
Please send me the links to the places where your false accusations are posted, and your side of the story, or the reason that these things were posted in the first place.
I will then try to help you find the owners of each website, so that you can contact them directly to have the lies removed.
It is better to work with the owners than to take action that would land you in prison for many years. If you violate the law and do something against these websites, only to go to jail for many years, then how many clients will you lose? You see my point? :-)
Anyway, provide the links and other info and I will help you fix this.
Thanks,
DN.
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Hey guys! So just earlier, about an hour ago, I started feeling this sort of dull ache in the center of my chest. It's not enough that I show it but it is enough that it bothers me, on a scale from 1-10 it's maybe a 4 or 5. It gets worse if I lay on my back or breathe in deeply. I know I'm not going to get a real diagnosis here and I plan to see a doctor if it doesn't go away soon, but does anybody know what it could be?
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Hi there,
When you have chest pain, you go to the doctor. No exceptions.
Please don't delay, call and talk to the hospital. If you can't get anyone to take you immediately, they may suggest coming by ambulance.
This is one of those things you just do NOT mess around with. I speak from experience.
Waiting for chest pain to "go away soon" is a really bad idea. Sure, maybe it is nothing, and the doctor will be able to tell you that, and maybe it is something. If it is a big deal, then every minute you wait makes things worse for you.
Another user here, 15 years old, started birth control, developed blood clots from it, had chest pain... waited 3 days and had a heart attack.
Not saying this is you, not at all, but only a doctor can tell you what is going on.
Take this seriously, and deal with it now. Please.
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Thank you for your alternator advice. It looks like mine was a battery problem even though it was showing 12 volts when charged.
Would you have any advice on checking for battery drain by shorts in the system? Ammeter in series from the battery when everything is turned off? What ammeter range would you start with?
Thanks. Paul Tatarewicz (link)
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Howdy Paul,
The first answer depends on if you have help or not. If you have help, you can place the ammeter in line with the positive terminal, and have someone under the hood watch the meter.
After that, you can access the fuse panel, and remove each fuse, and ask if there is a change. Take note of any fuse circuits that are drawing current, and see if they should be. Your radio draws for storing settings, and some cars computers are always on. Your alarm system is another one which is always on.
If you find something that shouldn't be drawing power, then you know where to start looking.
Most cars now have inside and outside fuse panels. You can check the ones under the hood by yourself this way, and then use the next method I am going to describe to check the interior fuses if you don't have help.
If you have no help, then pull each fuse, one at a time, and place the probes in line with the contacts where you took the fuse out. Any draw on that circuit will be shown this way.
Be careful not to jam the probes in the contacts. You want the fuse to make firm contact again when you are done, so spreading the contacts is a bad idea. Just use enough pressure to make good contact, and you should be fine.
As to which setting to use: The highest one your meter offers. If the draw is enough to prematurely drain your battery, it should show just fine.
Let me know how you make out with all this.
DN.
P.S. Just for future reference, I had an internally shorted (mineral buildup) battery show 12 volts, and discharge over a short time. Went just about nuts trying to figure it out back then. You said it was a battery problem, so I am assuming you changed the battery. If you haven't, then that would be something to check if you don't find anything odd in your electrical system.
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last time i was writen a question about jelously.
but at this moment i m not satisfied.
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Posting a link to the question would be helpful.
Thanks.
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OK, so my husband went to counseling for sex addiction a year ago. I thought he had changed but now I know he is seriously disturbed. he has a fake profile page on here as a 35 year old bisexual female. He has answered 700 sexual questions to women and teen girls over the past 2 years. he also has a female profile on yahoo answers, same thing answers explicitly female teen and women ?s. He also has a male advice column on yahoo as himself and answers sex ?s as a man. He tells teen girls that lesbian feelings are ok and how to do sex acts and how to masturbate. This is seriously disturbing to me and I think he has multiple personalities. What do I do and what the hell is wrong with him??? (link)
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Hello there,
The first thing is to tell me the account name used on here (I am the site operator) so that I can suspend the account. If it is who I am thinking it might be, then I have already suspended half a dozen other accounts they created over the years.
Please let me know as soon as possible.
dangernerd@gmail.com
... you could also leave the info in feedback here, or post a question to me directly.
What you are describing sounds very serious to me. I am by no means a doctor, but I understand why this would make you nervous. Frankly, it would scare the hell out of me from a relationship standpoint.
If I were in your position, I would talk to a psychologist and see what they say about this. I don't know if he has multiple personalities, but if you suspect this, you should seek help immediately. Nobody is capable of dealing with a multiple without help. You would go insane trying.
It is possible that this is his sexual fantasy life: To be someone else.
If so, then it is something you two need to work out between you, and I suggest doing it with a counselor.
Please send me the username immediately, so I can get him off the site.
Thank you, and I wish you well in figuring all of this out.
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i have asked a question called where to get a Barry Manilow bobblehead and some member named Matt answered no to my question so can you please delete it (link)
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Done.
I also noticed that you have asked a great many questions here.
Please create a free account, so that you can begin leaving feedback for users who have answered your question.
Thank you.
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this guy i like is in 7th grade and im in 8th and he looks at me sweetly like 7 to 6 times during resses and i cant tell if he likes me or not i really want to know if he likes me or not. Can anyone help me?? I am 13 and a Female. (link)
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Hi there,
You asked this here:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=608108
... and here:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=608135
... and it has been answered multiple times.
If you are having trouble keeping track of your answers, please sign up for a free account here:
http://www.advicenators.com/register.php
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I have never posted on a site such as this, and actually, I have never even truly contemplated ending the struggle - the fight for for life - until recently. Your post struck me because of how much I care for my loved ones. I spent my entire life in one city, earned a MA in Psychology and was a successful in my career back home. After a 7 year relationship (I am 27 years old by the way), I ended it (LONG STORY), because he developed a fierce drug addiction and I needed to start over. I now live in a new state w a completely new career and I feel like I should be moving in the right direction. My problem is that I made such bad decisions with money (earned and spent $2M in 4 years - now in debt way over $100K) that it continues to haunt me and in combo w my depression and anxiety I just cant take it any more. I cant see the light at the end of the tunnel. My family has NO money to help me any longer and being an escort in secret seems to be the only way to make enough money to get ahead. Im sad and overwhelmed and feel like I'd be much less of a burden if I just werent here any longer. I feel like the fight to get ahead in life is lost. I have been through much therapy and have always suffered from alcoholism. I now take meds for my anxiety and depression and have debated on overdosing to end the pain and struggle. I cant imagine what this would be like for my family but I just dont feel worthy of being here any longer. Any insight would be amazing. By the way, I could no be more sorry for your tragic loss and pls know my prayers are with you! (link)
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Hi there,
The user you wrote this to, doesn't allow inbox messages to their account from unregistered users, and so it defaults to the admin's box, which is mine.
May I suggest that you sign up here:
http://www.advicenators.com/register.php
... and post this to the user in question, as well as asking a question to the site as a whole?
I have two favors to ask you:
1) Please call: 1-800-273-8255 and talk with someone about how you are feeling. It is free, and everyone working there has been in a similar place to where you are now.
2) Realize that you aren't worthless, and that you aren't valued by the amount of money you have.
Do you think your family loves you more if you have more money? Do you think they love you less, if you have less?
No? Well, then why are you choosing to love or hate yourself based on money you have or don't have?
The $100k is a trivial amount if you think of it as long-term debt, as opposed to short term debt. You have proven that you have the ability to make that back in short order when you get back on your feet.
If that money is keeping you from getting back on track, then look at declaring bankruptcy. There is no law that states that once you are back on your feet you can't go back and pay your debts, even if they were written off.
I hope you will take a chance and stop valuing yourself by what you have in your bank account and start to value yourself as a person who is loved and cared for.
You should know that I am no stranger to tragedy, and if I told you the manner in which that tragedy manifested itself in my life, more than once, I don't know if you would feel better or worse, so I will keep it to myself unless you feel like hearing someone else's situations and the way they have overcome them.
If you want to talk, I can be reached on Skype for voice or text as dangernerd@gmail.com
Most importantly: You are worthy of being here. I understand it may not always feel that way, but it is true.
Have you ever considered stepping out of your situation and helping someone else? Do you live near a shelter, food pantry or other volunteer opportunity that will give you a chance to see things from a new perspective?
Feeding someone who hasn't eaten in days, and might not get to eat if you weren't there, will change your life.
Which is more important: Being a millionaire, or being able to keep someone from starving to death?
Maybe you will be a millionaire someday... but TODAY, even with all the problems you face, you are still in a position to do something good. Something that proves beyond a doubt that your life isn't wasted. Help someone else. Help yourself.
Your life is worth living.
Hope to hear from you.
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her older sister (who is 23) is going to prison for a year for forgery charges. I wonder once she goes if I should take her fifteen year old younger sister to visit her, but I am not sure I want my daughter to be inside a prison environment
it has nothing to do with her sister, she made some stupid mistakes but she is not a bad irredeemable person in my opinion nor was she a bad sibling other than this, but it is the environment I wonder about. I think not seeing her for a year might be better than going there.
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Hello there,
I remember this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=608030
... and can't help but think you are the same person, just changing up relationships in the question.
The people that took the time to answer your earlier question should have been given feedback for their answers, which is bad enough... but now it appears you are just asking questions to amuse yourself.
If you have a plausible explanation for this, I will remove this answer and post the question, as asked. Otherwise, please don't just ask questions for your own amusement.
Thanks.
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how can i deal with the frustration of having a ridiculously hard time with finding a job. I have no help and my life is fading. "Friends" dont call me anymore, family gave up on me and im single so i dont really have sombody to talk to. Im lonely and broke and i feel like a failure. I know that eventually my life will come back, but its already been 2 years. im only 24 and i feel like a bum. I dont know wut to do, where to go or how to feel. I've been a emotional wreck. im a pretty girl, and i have so much talent and potential. i dont understand why im in this position for so long. its just no movement in my life whatsoever.. its driving me crazy, litterally... i just really need some encouraging words or somthing (link)
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Hi there,
It is amazing the way adversity shows you who your friends are, isn't it? This is something I have been through a few times now, and it never ceases to amaze me how very useless people who claimed to be friends are when things get out of hand in your life.
Just remember this... don't hold it against them, just remember in the future, when your life is back on track that while they may go to the movies with you or something, you can't count on them in a bind. This way, if you are ever in a pinch again, you will not feel as bad about their character, simply because you were expecting it. That helped me a lot.
Two years, eh? Amazing how hard it is to run in place like that for so long, isn't it?
I don't think anyone who hasn't been in that position can truly understand the unique kind of stress you are under, and I believe that THIS is the reason people don't respond when you try and talk with them about it. They just don't get what this feels like, they can't understand why you feel this way and their input ends up being non-existent or really unhelpful.
Here is what I can tell you from experience as far as getting on track:
1) Sometimes a change of scenery is a good thing. You could consider looking for jobs outside of your current area.
2) DO NOT change scenery without a plan. I have seen people move across the country for a job, and not even have the job for sure, no place to live and nobody to fall back on.
Most of all, you need someone to talk to about all of this. The inability to vent all these feelings is what is building that stress inside you. You will be amazed how much better you will feel if you can just unload once in a while. :-)
I suggest you find a counselor and set up an appointment. There are some with sliding scales, so the money won't be an issue, most likely.
Depending on what you are interested in doing for a living, and the opportunities that do, or do not, exist in your chosen field, I may be able to help you find work, or at least point you in the right direction.
Even if you just feel the need to talk to someone who knows what this is all like, from experience, then please reach out and contact me.
DangerNerd@gmail.com
I am also available for text or voice on Skype, using the same address.
At this point, I know it feels like forever... but it isn't, and things will improve as long as you don't give up hope, and you make the effort when you get the break.
It is easy to give up, and terribly tempting at times, but you have a future... and when you look back on where you are now, you will feel stupid about stressing so much about certain things. Trust me, I know. :-)
Hope to hear from you.
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I can't think of a placard. (link)
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We need more details if you would like an answer.
Please ask again, and include enough details so that we understand what this placard is all about.
Thank you.
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please tell me who is this women in the picture, help?
http://tinyurl.com/bp8qgc3
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Cameron Diaz is the actress in the picture.
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i think of her regularly.she calls me and says she wants to get back to me but still living with the other guy.dont trust her again.how do io handle it? (link)
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Walk away. You will never be able to trust her again, and without that trust, you only have a lifetime of misery if you get into a relationship with her.
People cheat for a reason. If she is still living with the other guy, then that makes it clear just how committed she is to you, doesn't it?
When she gets tired of living with you, she will go back to him, just like she is doing to him right now with you.
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