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[call out] melissa
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[came in this world] september 14th 1990
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ok well umm.... im going out with this guy and like i want to stay with him but know that im with him one of my bestfriends is trippin over it cuz she went out with him 3 years ago but she sais she dosent like him and she never told me she did. I didnt even know her when they went out. know shes tellin me that im not a true friend and that we are not friends anymore because of him. wut should i do?

well the "best friend" has it wrong, if she was true then she would accept the fact yall are going out. think who you care about more, think are you better friends with this girl, or better friends with the guy, if she means a lot more to you then the guy, then tell him yall need to give it a break, if he means more, tell your friend that she isnt being true. OR, if you care more about your friend but like the guy to much, talk to your friend, she should understand you like him so much. but if she still doesnt let it be, then stay with the guy, cuz he would seem more true then her.

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Ok, I have a friend that is really good friends with my boyfriend. She calls him all the time. They end up talking for hours every day. I asked her to talk to him less, but she got mad and said I was being stupid. It worries me because she used to like him and still did when we started going out. What should I do?

hmm well tell her how you feel, ask her who she likes and tell her that you sometimes feel jealous. if she is a good enough friend she will listen.

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see i am very confused. i feel like i am loseing my best friend i mean all of a suddon she has changed i feel like i cant be my self around her anymore... like i have to impress her or something for her to still be my friend because she has so many new friends....i just want for things to be like they used to be like we were sisters. i dont know if its my falt or what like if i have changed i dont know.... ~confused one

hmm well, i was in that.. people thought i changed and they were loosing me as a best friend. i felt bad.. and they told me that i was changing and i didnt even know it. if you tell them then maybe she will think about it. when that person told me i started talking to them more and i started to think back on the old days. the new friends i had were great. but yes, people chance and they dont even relize it. talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. it may be hard, but think if you really miss it, maybe that friendship will come back

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