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Q: im a freshmen. i have a lot of friends, but only like 2 that are true friends. the problem is all my friends are like changing and stuff. some of them are becoming big druggies, some have become huge sluts and whores. i dont want to stop talking to them or something, i just want to make more, better friends. its not only that there slutty or druggies, its that they sometimes ditch me and my other friends to go do that stuff, and then tell people they barely know about it but completely lie about it to us. ive talked to them and they know i dont like it, but there not going to change for me or anything. its hard to find a new true friend all of a sudden i know, but how do i atleast meet more people, with 2nd semester coming up? besides talking to them and introducing myself and stuff..please and thanks!
you dont really have to change just for the sake of your 'past' friends.. to be in the friendly zone, don't limit yourself to the cool crowd.. try to mingle with the simple beings.. that way, you can extend yourself to better social relationships. Just be yourself. Be the genuine you. A sincere smile would definitely make a good first impression. Be neat and presentable, c'mon no one would really approach such a messy-haired and dirty-clothed person right? share your notes and try to start a conversation in a way that you want to get to know the person you're talking to not talking about yourself.. Lastly, respect comes in handy in every starting relationship.

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