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my best friend is a senior and he's graduating this year. im really gonna miss him and i dont want him to leave at all..whenever i think about it i start crying no joke.well im so confused because i can't tell if i like him or not. i already know its pointless because he's graduating this year but i just need to know if i do or not. i can't tell if i like him or if im just really upset that he's leaving and im going to miss him. i love being around him and he always makes me smile and hes just chill and our friendship rocks. all friendships are like that but its just the fact that hes a guy and we can be flirty [but hes like that with everyone] gets me confused.how do i know if i like him or im just going to miss him?
Sometimes,
besties are really close to us.
It doesnt always mean we like them.
But, if you catch yourself thinking about him day and night and you cant stop... you might be in love. Now, does he feel the same way? Its always good to tell him that you confused. Sometimes hugging him and seeing how it feels can help you decide. But, if you really dont know, maybe it just isnt right.
hope this helps!
Kaila
okay, my best friend and i. well, lets just say as any other boy/girl best friend relationship one always ends up liking the other. and so.. i end up liking him, and we are open about it, so i admitted it to him. anyways yeah...so time goes on and he apparently liked this girl and wanted to go out with her since august, though didn't because he knew i'd would get hurt. he told me he never put me as first priority, though apparently he did. early september we talked and i told him i no longer liked him, though a month before that i told him that i loved him, and im not that expierenced with relationships unlike him, so he didn't believe me, so i wasn't gonna go and say i loved him..since if he didn't believe me the first time around. anyways, later on in september he went out with this girl, and that lasted 3 weeks or so...and he started hanging out with the girl a lot whom im friends with also..and i saw something there yet i never said anything..i just knew he liked her and he didnt have to say anything..so i continued to keep quiet..at the end of november i told him how i loved him..and he got kinda mad at me that i lied and said i didnt like him and what not..and whatever..and the next day he asked out the girl whom we are friends with..he claims he told me he was gonna do this but didnt...and claims that i told him the day before just to make him feel bad..we were talking 2 weeks ago, and he admitted to me that i was his first priority up inless late september...and how i put off his family, friends, his gf..and how he didnt do hw and what not just to make sure i was alright when i needed someone to talk to since he was my best friend and i was going through a hard time with stuff in my life and what not.
and the whole thing didn't make sense to me and my friend..how he put off asking her out since august, yet asked out the other girl late september..i asked him and he said to get the other girl off his mind and because it felt right..though he didn't ask the other one out in august because he knew it would hurt me....and it made no sense.. he told me he lied about the first priority thing just so i wouldnt feel bad and what not and make things worse for me, because he knew that i didn't want him to worry about me and what not and do that crap.
so my question is..would there by any chance some sort of feelings he had for me in there somewhere? because its kinda confusing but it seems there is a bit..but maybe i'm just thinking about it way too much.
You ARE thinking abot it way too much...i mean...maybe you love him...maybe you just like him...you never really know until you know what the consinquences are gonna be. You may say you like him, and then it not get to him until he is going out with another girl. Then he feels bad, and ruins things with his most recent girl. But if you tell him you like him, when he's single, he may like you back, but then to change your mind, and say...no, i dont like you...will give him the chance and thought that he is never going to get you, so he might stop liking you becuase you said you didnt like him, and then you did. He'll move on to another girl, and becuase you couldnt make up ur mind, he will probably never come back, but you NEVER know...
i hope this made sense...i tried to...but remember...tell the EXACT TRUTH to a boy, becuse they can take things literaly!