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I am very patient. I can help with alot more than even psychologist help with, becuase i believe to help someone with a certain problem, you have to of had to go through it and i have gone through about everything in life.
E-mail: netta_briggs2007@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: A very small town.
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Yahoo: netta_briggs2007@yahoo.com
Member Since: June 21, 2005
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I have been friends with this girl, I'll call Katie for like 15 years. But for the last 4 years she has become an overbearing and often embarrassing persence. Katie often guilts people into doing things they don't want too. Shes an only child and has always gotten her way or has lied to get it. Katie is extrememly outgoing, Oh and did I mention she was outgoing. She is very large breasted and gets a lot of attention from guys. Which doesn't bother me because she and I have different taste in men. Lately though I've noticed she often lies to me, which she never used to. She also tells things about me to others that are outright lies. I am shocked and have asked her about what she says but she somehow comes up with some weird explanation. I have stopped telling her anything I don't want everyone to know. She also often chastises, me for doing the same things she does. Katie also gets jealous when I hang out with other friends and often makes her distaste for my other friends very obvious. I almost want to cut her off completely. Should I or should I try to find out what has gotten into her? (link)
Sometimes you just have to step back and let her be the way she is. But if you say she is as sweet and you to are really good friends then maybe there is something in her life that she is not telling you. Most people just start acting out because they are being hurt. You can go up and just ask her whats the deal, whats wrong i mean you have never acted like this before? but as long as you show her that you are not gonna give up on her i am pretty sure she will come through.dont try to force things though just let nature take control and have faith. shell come through.
good luck!




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