I'm a 19 year old male from Texas. In my arrogant moments I'm dead certain I'm an insightful, intelligent, wise, and caring person. In my modest moments I let other people tell me so and it doesn't get to my head. I would say I've experienced and also observed a lot in my short amount of life, and have a different way of looking at many things which often makes people make a little "Oh" sound when I give advice.
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So. I liked A. B liked A. Both are my friends, both are female. A and I, C, kissed a few times and I was an idiot. Okay. A and B are now in love with eachother. This happened over one day. I dont give a fuck about A, but I love B. Not like that. She's my best friend. And now Im going to lose her because of A. (link)
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Don't want to lose her? Then stick with her, and A be damned. If anything, and this'll sound pretty coldly manipulative, but whatever, if you stay her true friend and leave their relationship alone, chances are A will get jealous of you and her spending time together, and start getting angry, and that's when B will come to you after they fight or whatever, and you can say "I always thought she was a bitch," or whatever you want.
Eventually, it will become C + B vs A. And all you have to do to accomplish it is just be a friend, no trash-talking her choice in significant other, no bullshit arguments or trading off resentful or snide comments with A, play the good person role, fake it 'til you feel it, and don't let A get to you. After all, "The best revenge is a life well-lived."
And if A chooses just to accept you and tolerate your presence around her girlfriend, well, you've still reached the same goal, haven't you? You're friends with B.
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