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OK, so my best friend in the whole world is in this relationship and they have been dating for like 6 months. But the problem is I think something is wrong because he never acts like hes dating someone around her or his other friends(especially the girl ones)!I really dont want to see my friend get hurt because shes totally in love with him. And I want to be a good friend but I dont won't to but into their realtionship and be one of those friends who is always in their business. What should I do how do I tell her that I think something is wrong without hurting her? (link)
You sound like you are really really worried. If you think something is going wrong between the two of them then you should sit him down and ask him what is going on with him and inside his head. I mean if he is not acting like he is dating someone then you should ask him if he is ashamed of your friend and if he says no then ask him what is problem is and see if he is being true to his girlfriend. Telling your best friend is always hard especially when it comes to relationships. If you are worried you might lose her as a friend then just tell her straight out you know this may hurt her but your going to say it anyway and then if she doesnt like what your saying and gets mad at you...she (if she is really your BFF)well thank you in the long run and will come around it may take anywhere from a few minutes to weeks but trust me if she loves you at all and wants you to be there for her then she will come around.
~Shelly Beth




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