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I love to hang out with my friends, and go to the movies and shop. I am seriously a big social person, I love to talk. I have some serious problems of my own, but most likely I can relate to what you're talking about. So give me your best shot and I'll see what I can do. :-)
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one of my really good friends is going out with this guy, and this guy has been flirting with me and told me that he wnated two girlfriends and that he might want to take a break with her so he can get to know me better and other girls. and he has really been triyng to make moves and stuff and i wasnt sure waht to do. i told him to back off but he wouldnt listen, so i told my friend..everything. she decided to keep going out with him but i know hes been doin it wiht other girls but i dont want her to think all i want is for them to break up i just dont want her to get hurt. i dont know if theres anything i can do now since she knew all this but is still goin out with him, but there might be one last thing i could do. any suggestions? (link)
My best advice would be to tell your friend exactly what you told me. I know you don't want her to get hurt, because we all know that's no fun. Why don't you just tell her, maybe in person is best, that you really think she should reconsider going out with this guy. Tell her that you're afraid he might be flirting with other girls. I think what you did by telling her was the right thing to do. But why don't you just tell her you don't want her to get hurt. If she won't listen and continues going out with the guy, then you might just have to let her get hurt and learn from it. Hope I helped you!

*~Miranda~*




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