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Hi, I am 13 and I love getting advice. That' mostly what I come on for. You see, my mom doesn't live with me and I live with my grandma. My mom has a far away job, so I don't get girl advice very often.
Gender: Female
Age: 13
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MSN: eminemsokool@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 3, 2005
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Last Update: June 12, 2005
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heyy well i have a cousin who lives in another state..well when i went there to see her around christmas i met some of her friends when we were wild because of christmas and stuff and got their sns. and we talked on aim for a long time and wanted to meet in person the next time i went there. soo...somehow my cousin found out and she really hated me and thought i was trying to steal her friends. well, whatever..me and her friends met in person at a mall. it was SO awkward, like no one would talk for like an hour or 2. but whats funny is that one of my cousins friends..lets say her name is Alex..liked me on aim and i liked her too..but it was so awkward in person. should i want to see them next time i go there, and my cousin still hates me..what can i tell her? thanks (link)
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ok, i'm dating a boy that's 15 and i'm 13. i asked my parents repetedly if they minded that he was older and they said no and that they trust me and him. well i don't think they do bc all my other friend are allowed to stay out till 11 or later and i have to be home before dark! i totally can't stand it anymore! me and my mom get in fights all the time and i can't handle it! i wish she'd just let me be a normal teen like everybody else! and my boyfriend is totally understanding too. so that is a plus! but what can i do to let my mom know that she can trust me to hang out down the street at my best friend's house after dark? and i mean it's not like her parents aren't there. they actually hang out with us. they're pretty kool. but i really need help with this! (link)
I know this sounds REALLY STUPID (all of my advice does) but ask your mom if there is a way you can proveb your trustworthy and able to stay out a LITTLE later after dark? I mean not a lot (it gets dark out here at about 8 o' clock) so ask maybe if you could stay 30 min. - 1hr. later and if you do she might let you stay out maybe 30 min. then you prove your trustworthy she might let you stay out later (maybe after about 5 or 6 times)




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