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Hi! I'm reeses. I picked that nickname for my closest friends to call me all the way back in fourth grade lol. I absolutly love dogs and I want to be either a dog breeder or a singer/actor one day. Though I don't plan to be one, I happen to be great at phycology and problem solving. usually when I make guesses about how sticky situations will end up and who's right for who, I'm right. That's why I used to be a love matchmaker, but I bagged it and now I have an advice coulmn! enough about me though. I know the life of an adolencent can be tough, So I'm hear to answer the qustions that have been picking at your nerves. Write in and I'll post an answer ASAP. Trust me, I'm good at this sort of thing, so go ahead and write in! *~H.I.H.~*(hope I help)
Reeses

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my brother and dad hate eachother my brother wants out my dad wants him out and my mom is keepin my brother here. my brother has actually become a hazard to my family i have a very strong risk of being hurt by him to...hes real tall adn reall strong... i am not expecting you to know much about this sorta stuff but still i am asking you what do i do? my dads even tryed to call DSS for him my mom stopped him.

How old is your brother? If we're talking 18, he should be allowed to leave, despite what your mom says. It sounds like your mom is very loving, and just would hate to see your bro go. oh and that's good. But you have to make her see that keeping your bro locked up with his father (oh and I do know what you're talking about, I've seen a few father/son wrestling matches in the middle of dinner myself) is driving him up a wall. If he's not over 18, you may have a close relative he could stay with untill he's old enough to leave at free will. since your mother loves him, she could visit him anytime she wanted. Well in all cases, I think the best person to talk to would be your mother, since your dad and brother may be to hot headed to listen. Tell her that your scared and say what you feel you need to get out to keep you safe. Good luck on this one, and I really hope it turns out ok.
*~H.I.H.~*
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my parents won't stop telling my 11 year old brother he has to be more like me( I'm 13). more sensible, get amazing grades and be less immature. but afterwards he takes it out on me by just being horrible and grassing me up in front of my parents, and making things up about me and spreading runours. He acts like he really hates me and this is worse than just normal sibling fights. i don't know what to do because i never asked my parents to keep going on at him like that. we're not close anymore and he acts like he really hates me. I don't know what to do.

That's a toughy and I have the same problem. Your parents are the people to go to first on this one, because your brother is going to be tougher to get to. Tell your parents that you appriciate their graditude, but they need to let your brother be his own person, honor student or goofball. Also request that they stop using you as an example. Since this might not go into effect with your bro right away, you might want to get to him, also. A good way to do this is "bend" the rules a little when your around him. What I mean is say you go shopping with a buddy. While you're at the check out, buy you're bro his fav candy bar and say to him, "Hey, I saw this at the mall and I decided to pick it up for you." That way you won't seem like a suck-up sis that he can take advantage of. I totally hope it works out because someone who seeks advice to get closer to a brother really deserves a happy ending!!

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