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me again...
wow its so weird that there is somebody out there that had 2 go through the same thing i did with the same feelings...my dad already told me he wouldnt hold it against me but i just have this guilt inside me that wont go away and i know it not my fault that i have 2 make this decision...i know i shouldnt feel guilty but i do and i cant help it...but i guess ur right...plus my mom like started crying in front of me cuz she was sad i wasnt living with her...and i would get 2 see my dad everyother weekend and im getting my car in october((yayy)) so i could see him even more...
((i dont know if u wanted 2 hear all this but im saying it neway...lol))
neway...thanks for the awsome advice and it feels so much better that someone knows what im going through....
Thanks!!
Sarah
Anytime sarah!:)
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hopefully you will understand this cuz ur parents r divorced also!!..ok im a 15 yr old gurl my parents divorced when i was 2 so thats not whats bothering me...ok...its been me and my mom living 2gether since then but i visit my dad every other weekend and we r really close too...but in november(i was a freshman)my mom got married and she moved like 45 min away so i moved in with my dad just so i cud my freshman yr in the same skool...now its summer...now i have 2 chose who i want 2 live with and its the hardest decion i have ever had 2 make and i miss my mom so much cuz i only see her every other weekend its so hard becuz if i choose my dad then i will only see my mom every other weekend and thats so hard...i cry all the time cuz i miss her so much....but if i choose my mom then my dad will be byhimself and before when i lived with my mom he got depressed and everything...i dont want him 2 get like that again...but i feel i need 2 be with my mom rite now cuz her and her husband fight a lot (hes not physically abusive or anything...just fighting by words) but its still hard...and he has 2 kids and i love them but its like they r angels and i just a person there...like i dont matter as much as them (its not like that with my mom...just with him..) my mom is a really good step-mom but hes not a very good step-dad...its just hard 2 decide cuz im close 2 both my parents and i know they will both be sad if i choose the other...and i will be sad..i just dont know...any advice u have will help...thanks!!
sarah
btw srri 4 bein so long...
Yes i do have some Advice and i know exactly what your going through cause i had to make the same descion. Sit down with your dad and talk about it with him, tell him that you want to live with your mom, But you want to see him as much as you can, Tell him just how u feel about the situation, tell him its not him at all and its not his fault for anything its just you need your mom, see i was living with my dad and all my brothers and sisters were living with my mom and step dad, so after a year passed and it was summer break i had to choose who i wanted to stay with, my dad or my mom which i wanted to live with. So it took a while to figure this out and my dad told me hes not going to hold it against me if i live with my mom, So i moved in with my mom, this was when i was about 11 or 12, Ive lived with my mom till this day and still im going to stick by my mom, i may not get to see my dad for a couple of months cause we live in kansas and he lives in Las vegas,(not to weathly family so i only get to go down there when my friend buys my ticket for me) Though it seems to you like you want your friends thier where your dad lives, Thats an issue i had to face to before i moved to kansas last year. Choose family over friends cause u can always make you friends and you can always vist your dad, I know how u feel with the step dad thing, just try not to care so much and i know my parents fight all the time too, im with ya girl so if u need anything else just ask!
Marcus
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