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i got in touch with my dad last year after 8 years. one of my aunts (she's 28 i'm 18) use to call me all the time and w'e talk. she made me feel special i couldn't wait for the phone to ring! now the other day i called her and she said to call her the next day. i asked her y and she said i'm going to forget. i was bothered by this because she told me that whenever she wnats to tlk to ppl she makes time for them. she took me back and i don't think she should have told me that. i feel that since a year has passed she's acting different. when i first got my cell phone the first few days before it got messed up she never called. she would only say i'm going to call u tomorrow then i'd end up calling her instead and she'd always call her bf on the other line or they'd be talking already and she'd make it a three way. now i got my phone again and she never called she only returned my calls. i think it's unfair for her to expect me to call and she can't remember to call me anymore. i called her a few days after she told me that and she never called back. i think she's messed up to call at first and now she can't even remember no more
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I agree with pink fox. Stop calling her. No matter how much you want to talk to her, if she cant make time for you, then dont keep putting yourself through all this mental anguish. Its just driving you up the wall and im sure you can find other things to do. I had the exact same situation with one of my friends. She never called me, only returned, and never came to my house, i always had to come to hers, and she was always hanging out with her boyfriend and other people, but never had time to hang out with me. So one day i said to hell with it and stopped calling her and going to her house and now she asks why dont you call anymore, or why dont you come to my house. I just tell her i dont have time , and make plans to hang with other people. Now i am a helluva lot happier and we get along much better too. Try that and see what happens.
Hope i helped.




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