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whoever out there..somebody: I need help! REcently I just started cutting again because I have done it a little bit in the past. I reall want to stop but I don't really know how. I just don't approve of myself and it feels as if my life is going downhill. I need some advice and if anyone out there has done this before and quit- please tell me how you did it.
Thank You!

The only treatment of cutting is to always look on the brighter side of life. Never compare your life to other people because she can be the prettiest girl out there or the smartest but it doesn't mean she doesn't have her own problems to deal with.





I once read, we get what we deserve. So do you really deserve those scars? I used to cut too and I overcame it by not putting myself down. That's what you need to do.

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hi i am a 16 year old girl looking for help to stop cutting myself. the reason i cut myself is b/c im fat,ugley,and i have a broken hart. i need advice on what to do...?

I know how you feel. I began cutting last year and it was kind of a ritual for me. I would come home every day and add 3 or 4 lines to my already sliced arms. The thing about it is...we cut ourselves because we have no where else to turn. It's one of those things where you have to find the strength in yourself to stop and accept imperfections... accept life for what it is. But I know how hard it can be. I stopped for a couple of months and I sliced my upper arm pretty badly yesterday. I guess I did it because I feel like I'm such a disappointment to my family, that everyone is better than me and that I have to stand alone forever. I wanted to hide my body and be part of the wall paper...but there's only so much I could do. Today however, I'm deciding to start all over again. Be a new and better person. And at the end of the day all you have is you...and when we cut ourselves all we're doing is making ourselves weak, ugly and stupid and that's not us. So if you think your fat...then start eating healthier and exercising...if you think your ugly look at yourself in a lighter and brighter way...if you have a broken heart screw that asshole. The most important person is you...so take care of yourself.

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