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[call out] melissa
[candles on cake] 14
[came in this world] september 14th 1990
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Well, I am pretty much an average 14 year old girl, but I am really confused. I really like this guy, but I don't know how to tell him. I mean, I think he likes me too, but I'm not really sure. Please help me...quickly....because no one else has answered this for me...

tell him. if you think he likes u then give it a try.

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I told my boyfriend everything about how i felt
like when i get jealous and all that stuff and like does he really mean it when he say i love you and promise to never let you go. He gets mad because i dont trust him.. and i dont know now

well theres not much i can say, you need someone in your life who you can trust, and someone that can trust you. think how long you both have been together, it needs to mean someone, is it love? obsession? a crush? people get mixed up in these things. if he is the type where you like him so much you want to stay with him, do you really want to not trust him? or do you think that a friendship is better then anything? maybe just being friends is what you need most. but if you have stronge feelings for him and he does for you, all you can do is trust him.

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oK welll theres this guy and im with him but hes doing sumthing to me..yeah well i guess ill just tell you it mite help...hes using me for something..and i wanna brake up with him like i know im going to! but still like every time he signs on or sumthing i feel all weird like i get butterflys in my stomach and i start shaking! im over him i just think theres part of me that still wants him really bad! and i dont know what to do..how should i tell him i want to brake up though Melissa? cuz like i still wanna be the same best frendz we were b3fore he asked me out..which i knew i should have sed no..even if we are still frendz it wont be the same..idk what should i do?!?!?!?!?!?!? -K*A*M-

get someone else to do it for you and tell them to make sure they say you still want to be the best of friends

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My Boyfriend and i have been fighting a little to much. We didnt fight this much. and its always about me getting jealous or him gettin jealous.I talked to one of his Ex girlfriend he told her that he loves her and promsose to let her go and he told me the exact same thing. I dont want to get hurt.. i dont know whats going can you help me?

okay well, yeah guys say things they dont mean, and there just words, dont belive everything you hear. obviously yall are the jealous ttype. no one wants to get hurt, just tell him that you talked to her and that you dont want to get hurt. and he may say something like "well that was diffrent becasue.. blah blah blah" but who knows, just try to tell him how you feel about everything.

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well there is this girl i like and she doesn't like me back. she actually just found out the other day that i like her. i see her everyday and i like her so much i would do anything to make her happy. the prblem is she likes this other guy and they're gonna go out. this guy is my friend and i support him all the way but i can't deny my feelings for this girl. this girl is the most M-AZING girl i've ever met. i went out with her in 6th grade and we had a pretty good time. I would do anything to get her back but i don't wanna seem like a totally asshole.Melissa what should i do?

well, dont say that this girl doesnt have feelings for you, because you dont know that. -i bet- she enjoys it when you come because you are a great person. dont stop talking to her, or being with her, because she would miss that if yall stopped. things may change when she goes out with him but dont that that get involved with your friendship...

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Well theres this guy and I like him ALOT,I guess you can say I love him and I have for a really long time. I`ve done everything I can to try and get his attention, even changing who I am. My friend asked him if he would ever like me again or anything and he said Im not sure we`re really good friends. I feel the same way we are really great friends and have fun together all the time and I feel so comfortable around him and he makes me laugh NoNsToP! I just don`t know what else to do! Should I just give up? I`ve never done that before but, I`ve liked him for..almost 9 months..and he like me the first 2 but stopped. I really need help and I don`t really have anyone to talk to cause alot of people hate me this year at school. Thats another thing, my so called "friends". Pretty much all of them that I thought were my BEST friends last year have all stabbed me in the back this year and it was all after the volley ball tryouts when they all made it and I didnt. They have all changes since then. I dont know whats going on now. Im just sick of everyone and there fake smiles and stupid lies that they use to try and get attention. I dont know what to do.

hm, your going through a lot. changing who you are for a guy. hah iv been there. i changed my taste in music, the way i dressed, everything. yet i still didnt get him to like me. i like him.. 6th grade to the beginning of 8th. yeah.. we went out, and he broke up with me and i was soo sad. i thought, what didnt he like about me. he stopped talking to me and i would try to talk to him, but he didnt want to. we started talking again. and i started liking him even more. but then i thought, im never gunna get him back. and i went back to myself. and i just stopped talking to him. and now im over him. yeah when i see him i still think he is hott, i mean, he hasnt changed. im not sure what type of girl you are, but i guess all i can say is try to give up. and change back into yourself, maybe thats why your friends started changing around you, cuz you changed. a guy should like you for you not they way they want you to be.

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what should i do if i dont know when a girl likes me and i ask her out and she thinks im weird yet she likes me?

talk to her more. and if she likes you, she shouldnt think its weird.. just start talking be better friends and find out if she likes you. if your friends with one of her friends tell them you think you like her. and let them talk to her. find ways to find out if she would say yes or no. if yes, ask her out. if no, wait. maybe she will like you later.

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hEy i dNO yOU but I haVe yOUr S/N loL buT i HaVe a QuesTiON [obVioUSLy RigHT? haHa] WeLL. I liKe tHis One GUy..yOU couLD SaY i MIGHt Be ObSeSsEd && sAmE WItH Him BuT i CAnT gO oN LikiNG hiM aNd MIssInG hIm LiKE i Do... buT im LiKE 3 HoURS aWAY. hOw do YOu tHinK i CAn Get OVeR HiM. EveN thOUgh HEs ThE swEEtesT guy ON tHe EaRth?

alrightt lol well.. i use to be obsessed with this guy. but see im more then three hours away from him. more like.. 12 hours away. i liked him soo muuhch but i relized that, liking him isnt gunna do anything. long distance hardly works. n yeah i talked to him online like everyday. and everytime i talked to him id fall n love all over again. have you seen him? if you havnt, well, i dont think its gunna work. if you have seen him. try not to see him again, try not talking to him for a while maybe you will kinda, forget him, just like a break or something. i know it will be hard but just talk to him less. hope i help.

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Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 4 months now and his friends are trying to get him to cheat on me because i am 16 and he is 18 and turning 19 this year! but the only reason his friend is doing that is because i hate his girlfriend and he is scared of me!!! and my boyfriend dosent talk t him anymore but his friend gave a girl his number and has been calling him!!!and i dont kno ifhe has beentalking to her or not why do i feel so over protective!!!! why now???


MY BOYFRIEND IS MARY-CHRIS'S BROTHER!!!!!

wow, mary chris`s brother?.. hmm well thats messed up for them trying to make him cheat on you. if he does, he isnt a good boyfriend. and talk to your boyfriend about it. he should be honest with you. a year a 4 months is a long time, he should understand. you care about him and you dont want him hurting you. you are gunna be protective. being hurt sucks. i know. and i bet a lot of other people do to. just talk to him and tell him to tell you the truth, and if he lies, the best thing to do is break up with him. i hope this helps.

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