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ok well.. like a week ago i decided that i liked this guy, and i told my freind that i liked him and she told me that she liked another guy. i was all going fine until saturday night i hung out with some people and the guy that my freind liked was there too. we started hanging out and everything and i decided that he was really sweet. well now i think that i like him.. which is not good because this happened to me and onother freind before, and well, we arent friends anymore. i want to keep my freind, but i really really liek the same guy as her now and i dont want the same thing to happen to us as it did to me and another !

do i not like the same guy as her and stick to the other one i liked instead? or tell her that i like him too and risk our friendship?

i know freinds definately come before guys, but im confused on this one..

friends DEFINATELY come before guys... but i would be honest with her and say that you like him, but that it wont get in the way with your friendship. Make sure to tell her that if he asked you out you would say no, unless she was ok with it. but that's the only reason why you would say yes

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I've never had a boyfriend...ya sad i kno isn't it. How can i get one?

just be yourself! but, if you want to be like the girls at my school that do get boyfriends (no offense) get bigger boobs, go tanning and turn orange, become a blonde, you get the point... but personally i wouldn't want to look like that... but that's just me!

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how do you talk to a boy?

you just have to be yourself! and if thats not good enough for him, then he's not worth your time!

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