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Okay so i am grown- live on my own... good job, car, and go to college! So lets say there is this man (whom i care for VERY MUCH)... I have been with for over a year now. He and I lived together & had some issues between us...usually trust issues but still we stayed together. I let him move in for a long time. Then I broke up with him about two months ago. So he moves back with his family. & He logs onto the internet starts to meets all types of females cause he is so lonely & i find out about it after he and i already start talking again planning to get back together. He has come to visit me twice so far & is planning to move back in with me soon (possibly a week or so). He doesnt know that I know about him talking to young ass girls... and these poor girls dont know he has a WOMAN he has waiting on him back home... whom he is claiming to be his heart, be the ONLY one for him. Thus far my reason for not saying anything has been because i wanted to give him space and time to figure out things on his own. But its hard to have spent the time with this person and then know he is going to do all this behind my back. Do i let him know i know about what he has been doing? Do i let these females know I know about what he has been doing? Or do i keep quiet like i have been thus far and just see how things play out. As of now... i know he has met chics off the net... but not done anything more than talk on the phone and get sexy pics emailed to him. If you were me, what would you do?? (link)
You're Crazy...don't talk to me you go on all my shit..BP, YAHOO, AIM..XANGA..gurl jus stop!


a gurl wat up it seem dat only gurlz be up on her but naw i ned sumone rite now but yea i lied to ma homeguh about goin iwt diz one gurl and din she found out but da reason i ant tell her iz cuz i got strong feelins bout ma homeguh and i dont know wat to do to make it betta between us and so we can still be koo but if u can help me out din i would love dat gurl u da best holla (link)
HEY..I'm going through tha same thing except my situation iz like tha gurl who found out u had another gurl. You have to choose one or the other. I know its hard but look you can't be cheatin' on yur gurlfriend and messin wit otha gurls. IF u have strong feelings for tha gurl you should be with her. If she feels tha same 'bout you then be wit her. And 'bout tha gurl u already have...maybe u should break it off...ONLY ONE GURL AT A TIME. aight well I also understand why you would lie to her..but still...IF both of y'all got that strong feelings fo' eachother..bE wit eachotha.. i mean u can break up wit ur gurl, people change and people break up..thats tha way it goes..but I hope dis will make it betta between y'all..and It aint gonna make it koo if u keep ya gurl..and do sum freak thangz wit ur HoMegurL 2..bcuz i wouldnt want no male doin tha to me ..yea kno? Try to imagine wut its like to be in her shoes...



Wh0 wrote this?? holla at me on AIM or wuteva u kno me from...haha LaTur


gurl...how u get all dem boyz? (link)
Pfsshhh
GURL PLEASE!!

Just ...................................Be yourself and boyz will luv ya



my best friend boyfriend just broke up with her.And she still has a lot of feelings for him.but i have had the biggest crush on him since like forever.he asked me out not to long ago.what should i do.say yes or no.i dont want my friend to be a b!tch to me. (link)
Hmm this is a hard one to answer. I would stay away from him because your friend still has strong feelings. But in the future you could hook up wit him when she moves on. OR you guyz could go behind her back and go out. But since you did have a huge crush on him "since like 4eva" then I think you should tell ya friend that and make her understand your feelings for him. If she completely flips out then maybe u should stay away from him.

hOpE I HeLpEd YeA oUt !

************AUDREY**************


umm when u shave *down there* lol yah do u shave all of it or what..what r u suppose to do?? (link)
Gurl Its up to you! Some people like the keep a little in the middle u know like shave on tha sides and keep a strip down da middle. Or u could shave all of it off. You're gonna get razor burn or bumps or w/e down there though! For tha best results you should go get it waxed ((probably gonna hurt like hell)) but the results r better! If u dont want to then get shaving cream and a clean razor k?
HoPe DaT HeLpEd!


i gave this guy head and now i have a desease and i don't want to tell my mom to take me to the doctor cause then shell find out. r there places where you can go were it is confidential? (link)
How the hell do you know you have a disease? ? ? aight well go 2 tha doctors without her or call a hotline or sumthin were they give teens advice...your weird


*AUDREY*


ok there is this really hot guy travis and yea hes hott and stuff but he has a record of hurting girls in going into 8th grade and hes 15 what should i do? (link)
I dont really get your question........If he hurts gurls then stay far away from him please ok! PLEASE I DONT WANT U TO GET HURT! no boy should hurt a gurl! WHO CARES IF HES HOTT ! theres alot of hot n noice guyz out ther!


bye
LOVE
AUDREY


Hey Audrey!
I like this guy and I dumped him becaz he was doing some pretty bad things.I went out with his best friend, I didnt like his friend at first and I kno it was really f***ed up. His best friend and I broke up and now I really do like him. Were going back out now but the other guy doesnt know. He seems pretty damn mad but I mean his best friend really likes me, we just dont know how to tell him how much we really care for him but we really like one another. You have helped me before I hope you can help!
Thanks Audrey I love ya! (link)
OK I KNOW WHO WROTE THIS LOL ....welll gurl you should seriously just go out with whoever you like better and feel most comfortable around. IF you guyz like eachotha so much then i think its ok to move on and tell that otha boy that you guyz like eachother. You realize how much you really like somebody when they're gone. In this case you realized how much u liked his Best freind when u guyz broke up. I know you and your ex liked eachotha in tha past but things change and so do people.! Its alright to tell him..and yes it will hurt his feelings but he'll get ova it!

luv ya hun...

AuDreY
x0x0


Hey audreyyy=)
Ok i have a problem. my bf broke up with me a couple weeks ago and i have told EVERYBODY im over him, and im tryin but i cant do it. and i know he doesnt like me anymore but then he'll go and tell all his friends how good he thinks i look and idk hes like all flirty and shit when im with him. and fuck idk what to do i cant get over him! wtf do you think i should doooo? (link)
Oh yes I've been through this before ..GET OVER HIM BEYOTCH! just messin...the best way is to get another man ...trust me this does work! Or you could act like you don't give a sh*T about him in front of his face..then he'll want you back so bad. MAybe if he acts like this y'all arn't meant to be..I know how much love hurts.

ahhhhh well hope u get ova that big beyyyottch!

LoVe YeA!
*AuDreY*


Ya see therre's this girl....that lives way ova in phoenix,az....and i think shes really really hott.....but i doubt i'll ever get to meet or see her.....help meh...:o) lol

[Oh yea i think you know the girl ;o)] (link)
LOL OMG!!! u crazy boy! just ride the plane DUMMY! save up yo money and come see this *SpeCiAl* gurl! or y'all could just wait till ur older n move together or sumthin...itz only in CALI lol hahahahahahaha

MuChO LoVE
*AUDREY*




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