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15/f;; my bf has awful mood swings [16/m]. ive been talkin to him since i got home from school so basically about 5 hours [this is normal haha] anyway he was totally fine and then like in the last hour he got super quiet and was just giving short little answers to questions -- mm hm. no. yeah. k. -- we didnt argue or anything, he jus kinda shifted moods. he does this a good bit. a lot of the time, hes not in a good mood when he comes home from work [he works at least 6 hours a day 5 days a week] so i try to cheer him up then, but he didnt even work today. he knows he can tell me anything and that ill be there for him nmw, but whenever i ask him whats wrong he always says 'nothing', when somethin clearly is botherin him. im a gerenally mellow happy optimistic person and do my best to cheer ppl up, and he says that i make him happy since im like that, but when he gets like that i really have no idea what to say to him. i have like no words of encouragement or anything. do yall kno anything i can say to help cheer him up?? i hate feeling helpless!! thx (link)
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well
boyy r worse then gurls in that way.
butt maybe something is bothering him . i am not sure butt i know my boyfriend switches moods all the time. it normal thing we all do it .
maybe just tell him to cal you when we want to talk. i hope it works out let me know how things go.
lil miz me
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16 female.
i'll try and make is as short as possible but its kinda complicated so..SORRY!
well this kid that had a girlfriend of almost a year and a half broke up. and i knew that he still really liked her but was really attracted to me too! and so he slept over at my cousins house (theyre both 14) and so my other cousin/best friend nikki (whose 15) thought this kid ben was soo hott! and so then they wanted me to sleepover at their house but i couldnt so then i got on at like 12 the next day and i was talking to my cousin nikki and then all of a sudden someone types come pick me up and im like what? and it was ben saying that. and hes like i havent seen you in forever we can go rollin around. so i picked him up and i went shoe shopping for a bit and then i was like now what u pick. and hes like lets go get something to eat. so he payed for me even though i offered to and then hes like now what should we do. and hes like lets go see a movie and i was like ohhh jeeze. and he payed for me in that too and i say i could pay! so we did and of course he wanted to see a scary movie! and so then we were sitting there and in the previews hes like let me see your phone and then he typed to me..you look really cute today and im like not uh you didnt let me get ready you loser! and hes like yes you do you look beautiful everytime i see you. and then we kept typing back and forth on my phone and hes like is it bad that im younger and im like i dont know kinda why? and hes like why do you think i kept asking you who you liked. and then i was like i dont know?? and hes like would you mind if i got closer haha. and im like it dont matter to me! and hes like would you be mad if i kissed you because i want to. and im like probably not and hes like would you kiss me back? and im like..yeah what else would i do! and hes like allright then im gonna. so he got closer and then we started kissing and making out in the movie. and then we were like laying down on the seats (yeah dont ask how) and he was like kissing my neck and rubbing my stomach haha and hes like you have the sexiest stomache ever. and he kept complimenting me but then he was like do you want to jack me off? and im like NOO! and i patted his head :D because im not like that. ive only madeout one other time before this! and so then it was all done and over with but now he keeps calling me and talking to me and at the movie he kept asking if he could kiss me and after a while i was like no..no.. because i wasnt really attracted to him it was weird! so i dont like him like that but do you think he has a thing for me? or just wants to get into my pants. what should i say? because i dont want to be like i just want to be friends because what if he is like i dont even like you or something? ahh i didnt even plan on doing any of this it was such a surprise! and then he was like you cant tell ANYONE about this promise? and i already told my cousin nikki and im like okay..and hes like ok and i wont too! so i was like what the hell? he doesnt want it to get out probably so that girl doesnt find out and stuff. this is messed up! im soo confused. (link)
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well ok hun
that boy is young and i think all he wants is a easy gurl. i could be wroung butt its seems like it .next time you hang out dont kiss him and see if he will call you again you should be able to tell . i hope things work out for you .
let me know how things work out .:}
lil miz me
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