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As long as I can remember, friends have been asking me for advice on relationships. Since my first psychology course in high school,I knew that I wanted to be a psychologist. I graduated from the University of California, San Diego with a Bachelor's degree in psychology. Additionally, I have completed a masters program in cross-cultural education. After graduation, I taught kindergarten, third grade, and seventh grade. These experiences increased my awareness of the issues affecting families. I am currently working towards a degree in marriage and family counseling and eventually plan to start a private practice.
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Alright, this is gunna be long...
ive been with this boy for a year, and im in 7th grade..everythings great i love him...im pretty sure, then theres another guy in 8th grade who really likes me and hes so sweet and im starting to like him too..i dont want this to happen because i REALLY love my boyfriend, and id do anything too stay with him and im scared to let go of him cause i cant live without him...what do i do
The fact that you have been with your boyfriend for a year suggests that you both have the maturity to commit to a relationship. Many seventh and eighth graders are not as mature. Since you are feeling interested in other boys, I suspect that you feel something is missing in your current relationship. Try talking to your boyfriend about your feelings. He may be happy to make small changes that would keep you together. Give your boyfriend time to show his feelings for you. It is best not to rush your decision. See if the eighth grade boy has the patience and maturity to wait for you.
Although you love your boyfriend, you have many years to decide who to spend your life with. But, if you decide to become more than friends with the 8th grade boy, be prepared for the possibility that he may not be ready for a long-term relationship. Also, be careful not to ignore your friends while making this decision. Your friends can be great support when relationships with boys do not turn out as planned.