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As my Aim screenname imposes, i am THE biggest weirdo on the face of the earth, but i am still qualified, if you could put it that way, as a good advice giver. i have a good rep for honesty in most cases, and i wont spew things out, like secrets and other stuff of that sort, i am trustworthy. email me, IM me, or call me if you know the number for private conversations with me. i hope i can solve your problems!!!
Salsa Masta JDG

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Ok so i have gone out with mi bf for a couple times now and well I realli like him. I was scared he would break mi heart at first or that he didnt realli care. We have kissed and made out and stuff and i realli love being with him. I constantly think about him. I can tel he cares cuz when mi friends play flirt with me he gets mad and stuff. Could this be love?
-confused- (link)
it is entirely possible for any boyfriend to love a woman, and it is entirely possible that your particular bf loves you. If there was a pattern that guys could tell if they are in love or not...i would tell you what i thought at first glance at this question....but sadly, there usually is no real way to tell if he loves you or not. it sounds like he does from what u have told me. hope it lasts a long time!
Salsa Masta


UM... yeah theres this person thats a guy n he thinks I like him but I think he likes me too and he said he was 13 when I met him n im 14 so that was cool but when he broke up w/ for me he confessed that he was 12 and he only said the was 13 when I met him "so I wouldnt have hung up on him" this is like kinda illegal!!! what should i do... (link)
illeal eh? u wish it was illegal....jkjkjkjkjk.....but on a different note... if you still like the guy, and you tink he still likes you....re-ask him out! unless of course he will break up with you again, and if he tries to break up wit u, tell him that it doesnt really matter about age, unless....well....it does....hope i helped!
Salsa Masta


So here's what happened:
I found myself extremely crushing on this guy named Josh Gordon...It took me a while to think that I was really liking him, but now I can see that he is really really sexy...I can't stop thinking about him...what should I do?
Love,
Dazed and confused.

Thanks (link)
The choice is yours, whatever you want to do. you can ask him out, keep admiring him, or do whatever pleases you. since you havent givenme any primary action choices, thats all i got to offer
sry,
Salsa Masta


Ok..I really like one of my Ex-Boyfriends...but he doesn't like me...at least thats what he tells my friends. I don't really know if he likes me or not and I don't know how to find out. I really miss him and wanna go out with him again. It might be helpful to know y he broke up with me...he broke up w/ me cuz he met this other gurl at funtime, he KINDA liked, and he thought she really liked him. So he broke-up with me...but when he asked her out...she told him that she liked his best friend. I still really like him and miss him soooooo much! I wanna go out with him but I don't know if I should just give up on him...or ask him out...or wait for him to ask me out. What should I do? Should I just ask more of my friends to ask him if he likes me, and see what his answers are or what?! I don't know what to do!!! I (link)
it is apparent that he prolley isnt goin to ask you out again, bein a guy i know. never give up o someone unless you know that nothing will change or happen. so, my advice to you is to go ahead and ask him out. but! explain i a short story fashion like, "since "whoever" didnt go out with you, maybe i can go out with you or somethin", or whatever you choose to say (i know that was a corny line).dont get ur friends to ask him about it either, that will alert him to start thinkin about it, you DON'T want that to happen, cuz that increases the chance of denial. just go up to him when he is alone or somethin and ask him. it doesnt hurt to try!
Salsa Masta


this guy i like. my friend had told him i wanted to give him a blow job...i dont really want to....,what do i do? If i tell him myself that i dont then he will not beleive me...
Help, Ashley Pinales 423-1169 (link)
option one. just go up to him neway, if he believes what your friend says, just walk away.
option 2. go up to him with your friend and tell him that you dont want to, and get your friend to back you up.
option 3. (not the best option) avoid him if at all possible, and if he asks you about it, go ahead and tell him ur friend was just kidding around and that you really dont want to.
Hope i helped!
Salsa Masta JG


this is kinda long beware

hey 15.f.cali here

ok i have a few questions and i am in need of some insight... Well i like this guy and he is so flirty and we are friends and we have been for about 4 years and now we hangout alot and talk alot and we have all the same friends and what not and he knows i like him cuz he asked me in a note (we have 2 classes together and he sits next to me) and i said well you but i dont want anything to change if you dont feel the same way. ok and so after i said that he wrote we need to hangout more. and everyday almost he tells me i looke really cute and tells his friends im so hott and because they ar my friends too then tell me...we have so much fun together and i think we would make such a cute couple cuz we are both open minded people and we are into the same things... my question is what do i do? like a few of my friends are like he is shy when it comes to that so ask him out. but i am too and i could never do that. whats a girl to do???

muha thaks
Lisa (link)
Listen, i had the same trouble you had with askin people out, even though i am a guy. all you need to do is just pick a time/moment and ask. don't hesitste about it either, dont even think about it before you do so, it creates fear when you do, then it will bring total oblideration-not askin the guy out-and ultimately, you wont have another chance to do so for a while. like i said, just dont think about it, just do it, like the nike people say :)
Salsa Masta




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