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Ok, here's how it goes. I kind of like this girl "Carissa", but she stops talking to me every time she meets a new guy for a week. She claims I'm her best guy friend. There's this other girl "Renee" that I have been hanging out with a lot recently, and I think I am starting to have feelings for her because she is really naturally beautiful and her personality is really great, but the thing is she is narcissistic. Then there's another girl that I don't really have feelings for, but she is always there and wants to talk to me and see me when she isn't doing anything. Only thing is, she is only doing that because she wants a boyfriend and she has been meeting many guys. What do I do? (link)
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Let's see.. I'll try to help with each situation.
"Carissa"- If she claims that you are her best guy friend, she should not ignore you when she starts meeting people. If it happens again, let her know what she is doing because she might not even be noticing it.
"Renee"- Is her being narcissitic something you could deal with? If not, then maybe it wouldn't be a good idea to be in a relationship with her. If it is something that isn't a big part of her of affects you too much, then I'd try getting to know her better and learning more about her personality.
"other girl"- Ask her why she only wants to hang out with you when she has nothing to do. Ask if she considers you a friend or just an "aquatince" (I cant spell it sorry). It wouldn't be fair to you if you consider her a friend and she just doesn't care so talk to her about it.
Hope I helped!
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