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Q: I can be pretty shy. When it comes to guys and sometimes even making new friends. I am going into a new school now, and I just want to be able to have as many friends as possible. And I don't want to be standing there seeing all of these girls talking to guys just because they look confident and walk a certain way. Do you think that makes a big difference? Being confident in yourself and showing it? Or am i just hopeless? Let me know. How can I fix this?

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your not hopeless!

you dont have to show your confident just be yourself... i never really had this problem so its sorta hard for me... uh just pretend your talking 2 1 of your friends (that are girls) and see what happens.. youll just talk to them regualrly and no differntaly!!

okay so the part about making friends you wanna do a project that will introuduce you to them or walk up and introuduce yourself.. i know it might feel weird but you can say-

"im new here will you show me around" or somehting nice and friendly... and then youll be introuduced to all her friends and your friendships will be made!

sorry if i didnt help! but i hope i did!

&hearts lAuRa &hearts

Q: all the girls at school ethier think of me as a brother or as a really good freind all of my freinds have gf/or bf i had one about a month ago but since then its been getting worse i dont want to seem despreate what should i do should i wait for the right girl to come along or keep on trying to find one alos i havent kissed anyone on the lips and everyone else has it makes me feel out of place i have kissed someone on teh cheek before but thats it
so my brilliant answer is....

if you dont like a girl dont try to force yourself to.. just wait till the right girl comes along... also if you really want a gf that badly just hang around girls more and try and get 2 know them better... who knows? you could end up liking them...

okay so the seound thing about kidding on the lips... if they ever talk abotu that change the subject...

i hope i helped... im trying!

&hearts laura &hearts

Q: im friends with this guy, and i think he wants to ask me out. I dont like him like that, how do i say no?
hmm thats always hard.... just say that you dont wanna be anything more then friends right now. Maybe later youll have differnt feelings 4 him... but not right now. if you think youll never liek him just say the same thing... who knows you migth like him later... but if you dont... then you dont wanna hurt his feelings!

8>laura

Q: okay. i like this guy alot! And my friend asked him if he likes me. He he said "no.....just as a friend". but she says he said it funny (like he was lieing)
And, i dunno 2 move on. or keep flirting. *because when he flirts-i flirt/when i flirt-he flirts.
Do i give up or what?
keep on trying!

if you like him this much hopefully he likes you back!!

If you are good friends with a guy that is good friends with him ask him to ask this gut who he likes.... maybe its you maybe its not...

also try spending some more time with him and see what happens... you never know!!

8>lauraroxZ

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hey ppl!

this is laura and i was bored so i made an advice collum! its attcaully pretty cool and i like giving adivce! ask my some questions and ill answer them! sorry if i suck!! im trying!!!

&hearts lAuRa &hearts

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