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I have this problem in me that is negative thinking mind. I keep thinking of the past experience with my ex's and how they betrayed my trust in them.
I am in a love relationship now and i keep thinking that my boyfriend is also like my ex's when he has not even hurt me before.
He knows about my negative thinking and has helped me to put on a positive mind always.It doesn't seem to work.
Can you help me out here? What should I do to keep this relationship to last forever? (link)
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Well the first thing is: Relationships don't always last forever. They may last a very long time, but not forever. Keep an open mind in that.
The one problem I think you have is trust. You seem to TRUST your boyfriend, but you are naturally suspicious of his actions because people have hurt you before. The thing you are looking for, which is trust, will only come in time. Because you've been hurt so much, your mind has to learn to accept that ALL MEN are not like those in your past. It may take time.
You also have to remeber, do not compromise his privacy. Don't read his text messages, don't look at him e-mails, or assume he's going somewhere else when he tells you he's going somewhere.
Trust is an integral part of the relationship, and if hew trusts you, you should do your best to trust him.
I hope I've helped your situation a bit.
Good luck :]
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