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~*heyy !! my name`s brittany kristine and i`m 13 yrs old. i live in New york but i`m originally from north carolina. . . yeaa i`m from the country. . lol my hobbies are talkinq on the fone.. mall . . . movies day/niqhts.. sinqinq . . lOokin at dead sexii boiz. . AIM .lol yeaa that sorta stuff.. oh yeaa ii love to help people with their prOblems that`s why ii started this advice collemn for people who have problems and need some second hand advice. . . so0o yea that`s it you know a lil about me!!

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i have this boyfriend. but hes black. i really really like him and we`ve been on and off for like a while now im just afraid my family wont approve..they arent racist they jus dont exactly approve of this kind of thing maybe because the only black man brought into out family happened to be involved with drugs and violence pleasee help me i dont want to listen to my family bcause i care for him so much isnt that what counts?


it`s only a color.. if u really like him thats all that matters .. parents usually teach their kids to grow up not judging ppl by how they look.. after all its only a skin color it doesnt affect the person within.. and wow ur question sounds like my life ahah.. but yeaa parents told me not to judge a book by its cover so dont judge a person by the skin color.. need i say more? if u love him or like him then dont listent to ppl its ur life do what u want with it. were all human beings
-britty kristine*

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alright me and this guy were goin out for 3 days and he cheated on me, so a few days later we broke up and i still like him and he says he still likes me..? buht i mean we were only goin out for 3 days?? should i trust him and give him another chance or just tell him to fuck off???

-CoNfUsIoN-


im 14 and female


hmm. well if u only went w. him for like 3 days then what do u have to lose? its not like u were soo deeply in love w. him . well yea then again what posessed him to dump you after jus 3 days?? hmm well do whatever u like try it u hve nottin to lose.

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it`z confused girl again :( if i wanted to get closer to bill ((the other guy that i like)) how do i do that??? do i invite him over to watch a movie wit a big gruop of ppl? or what bcuz idk how to get closer to him :(


movie is a good idea.. of course u have to invite me if u know me.. lol but yea movies with a group of ppl..preferabbly ppl he knows and is comfortable around so he doesnt feel uncomfortable.. keep askin more questions if u need anymore help.. :)good luck hun
-britty kristine*

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Miss Heagerty, i have a problem..i like someone very much but hurt them also and this other girl likes me and i dont really like her and i want one girl but the one i want migth not want me b/c i've hurt ehr so much and i wanna show her i have really changed and i knwo she has heard this b4 but i really wanna show her!!


wow, that`s a problem. well you have to think about what you want. do you want this girl who you like?-or do you want the girl who wants you?
if you like this girl as much as you say... tell her how you feel. if she truly loves you she`ll forgive you- but that doesn`t mean she`ll forget about all the apin you put her through. you cant keep hurting her and expecting that she`ll always come back to you because she may not one of these days. i can relate to how this girl may be feelinq because i`ve had the same thinq happen to me. and it`s not easy. you cant act like ur a changed man one day and then go back to the player,mean type of person that u may have been before, then be a changed man again. being a changed man means your CHANGED FOR GOOD.
if u do choose to ask her out and try things again make sure you don`t plan on hurting her again.. it really truly hurts- i would know because i like this boy so much right now and i cant possibly wonder why he would do something like this to me after how much i`ve cared for him. it just doesnt make sence to me. but please, if ur gonna ask this girl out and u claim to be a changed man.. prove to her that ur a changed man which means dont cheat on her or make fun of her or pressure her to do anything because as long as she starts and continues to trust you the more you`ll get out of the relationship..and im not talking just about sexual shit.. but try and who knows things might work out great.. GOOD LUCK!!!!
-britty kristine*

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i think im in love wit this 1 guy // lets call him bob. my friend knos i love bob but she decidded 2 go out wit him // i raelly love him but theres this other guy that i like lets call him bill!!! should i give up on bob? and go for bill? 2 be honest i dun think bob or bill will ever like me :(

xoxo, confused girl


dear confused girl,
if you "think" u love someone then you don.
if you really loved him there would be no doubt in mind that u do. if he knows u like him and he still went out with this other girl then he..sorry but.. doesnt like u possibly.. bkuz if he cared aobut u as much as he should he wouldnt dare going out with one of ur friends bkuz he knows that would hurt you.. and as for bill..GO FOR IT!!! try and see if he likes u who knows things may work out relly well!! :) but if u think they dont like u than they wont.. u wont get anywhere with that attitude.. dont be stuck up but be confident that u have jus as much of a chance as everyone else!! good luck hun
-britty kristine*

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hey hey girlie umm .. i like this guy okay but i dont really know him that well&he doesnt really know me. i mean we know who each other isss but like he wanted to hang out the other day so he told me to call him but i neverr did.. idk if i shud call and apologize and make plans for next weekend ? or just let it go and see what goes on in the future ? :-\


okay well first of all. DONT MAKE PLANS FOR NEXT WEEKEND. i`m also a phycic and i see a vision of you and ur best friend going shopping that weekend.. hhaah but anyways. wen he gets onlinei.m. him and say like "my computer froze and i never got a chance to write ur number down.. maybe we could make plans again" he`ll most likely say yes and then problem solved.. dont ignore this though bkuz he may think u dont care. so deff make rearangments. lol maybe u should get tto know him on the fone or online a lil b4 going to the movies alone w. him.. that way theres not so much odd silence goin on.. hoped i helped... :) GOOD LUCK BABEZ
-britty kristine*

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Dear Dr.Brittany! l0l!
Anyways i broke up wit this guy like 2times before then we went back out then i broke up wit him again today cause ppl like me he was turning obsessive and stuff and i want him back but i dunno how to tell him and if i can..can you help me?


well if i were you i wouldnt listen to what people say. . .i think u should take sometime to think about what`s more important:: wut ppl think or what YOU think.. hmm theres a tuffy. dont treat this boy`s heart like a toy seriously bkuz once u lose him u may lose him for good. tell him about the mistake u made and even though it may hurt him to hear that u broke up w. him bkuz of wut other ppl thought.. it may make him feel better that u realized it was wrong and u dont care what ppl think anymore bkuz u like this guy and thats all that matters.
hope i helped.
-britty kristine*

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Dear Dr. Brittany,
my name is Frank and I have a relationship question. I'm wondering if i should ask this girl out, her name is lola, see, she's really nice and perty and stuff, and we're like best friends, so i wanna know if its smart to ask her out, and i need a place and way to ask her out, so suggest somthin. thanks, lol


okay.. well heres my brilliant advice..haha . well if you care for her as much as u sound like u do then go for it.. ask her out. i mean the worst she could say is no. and if she does then remain friends.. but i understand what ur problem is. but then again it may not be smart to ask out ur best friend. i learned the hard way. me and my b.f just broke up and we were best friends and now everythings different. but if your friendship w. lola is strong, then u 2 will most likely remain friends w.out anything being different. a good place to ask her out would be somewhere private.. like the movies or posibly on the phone if yor shy. make it sweet though. say i really like you lola and the more time i spend with you the more i realize i like you a little bit more than a friend. if she starts to sound a little uncomfortable back off dont scare her and make her feel pressured into answering you bkuz she may give u an untruthfull answer. if she gets a little scared off don`t pressure her by asking her right away. but if she says i like u too. then go for it ask her out and hope for the best.. i hope i helped you out ... good lucky buddy.
-britty kristine *

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okay britty i love you soo much hehe but i need help .. im like in love with this guy .. and i try to tell him how i feel but when i do he like just dosent care .. and it hurts .. idk what i want maybe i want him to feel bad .. or maybe i just want him to like me back .. or MAYBE i want him to talk to me about it instead of just saying :-/ or oh.. and we use to talk like EVERYDAY we were BEST FRIENDS and now we never talk .. theres nothing to talk about .. what should i do babe ? if you can tell me thanks so much !! and i love you !! ill prob need mmore advice later haha much love hun pink is pimpin !!


okay here`s the deal chicky.. ii have the same problem goinq on so here`s my brilliant advice. lol -if you LOVE him then you need to have some one on one time with him. where there`s no distractions. which means online prolly isn`t the best place bkuz other people may be i.m.ing u guys at the same time making it distracting.. i`d say on the fone or in person. tell him exactly how you feel.. but try not to pressure him into opening up and telling u how he feels right away bkuz he may get pissed from u asking him too many questions at once.. he may be scared to tell you how he feels bkuz he`s afraid to ruin such a good friendship. but whatever you do don`t broadcast what`s going on in your guy`s life.. it`s no ones buisness and this would start major gossip and scare him off possibly. but be honest with him. if he act like he doesnt care it may mean he` scared to admit his tru feelinqs goin on inside of him. (guys dont open up as well as we do) or it may possibly mean he`s just not the rite one for you and if he isn`t.. don`t waste ur time on him bkuz theres so many other fish in the sea and u shouldnt be hooked on one guy for so long at such a yooung age... (i shouldnt talk but still) i hope i helped you out ana!! ilu!! haah and sry if i didnt this is my first feedback so it may suck a lil but ill get better...
good luck!!!
-britty kristine*

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