Hey, our names are Steph and Jess.
Were two disfunctional best friends
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Age: 16
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Now why do boys get so mad when you say things like i know you told them or you know what they were talking about or even when you say whatever or i don't care anymore. I know people say it's a sign of guilty but is it really. Now is it true if a boy really likes you he would want to spend time with you and want to be around you. (link)
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heyy, sorry if it took so long to answer but i know exactly how you feel. i think its because boys feel liek they should be superior to women and don't like to be proven wrong. my boyfriend of 3 years would get sooooo mad when i said okay whatever, its over i dont care and i think its because they feel your not trying or you don't care about them enough. they want you to like work things out not just blow it off but in certain situations you get so heated up that your just like whatever, i dont care. but i think you need to think about that next time you fight because in the end they will be like maybe she really didnt care and that might be the reason you break up because thats what happened to me. i know its hard to think like that especially in certain situations where your just sooo mad you don't know what else to say but guys really want you to show that you care and there not the only ones who want to be in a relationship. and its always better to end a fight on a good note because usually when you say whatever okay it ends awkward and your both mad for different reasons. if you need to talk more, you can always e-mail me!
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The boy I talk to only came over my house once and we only just talk on the phone. A few things that he do that I don't like is when he see me he just say hi or not and that would be it for the whole day until he calls me after school. But another thing is that all his friends call me his name when they see me and they know we talk and everybody in school know. But why is it that he don't act like he want to be around when all his friends stop and talk to me and always hang around me. Everynight when we talk he acts like he cares so much and like I never ask him to come over or to go out. I hate when it seems like he just want to hang out with his friends out of school, just ride dirt bikes and whatever else he be doing. When I asked him why he treat me this way he said, "That's because I really like you". I don't understand why he treats me this way like I'm not even there but just walking right by me. But I realized he will want to be around and want to talk to me when all his friends around. So what why do he act this way and what should I do?
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It shows that he just really likes you.. some guys do that when they like a girl because they are either shy in person, or they just dont want their friends really knowing how much they like you. I think y ou should just keep talking to him and eventually he will become more comftorable talking to you in person around his friends and he wont care as much, and dont worry if you go out with him he will make time to hang out with you alone and even with his friends because trust me he will want to be with you if he likes you as much as he seems to. A lot of guys just dont want their friends seeing their sensitive side to them thats why on the phone he shows how much he cares about you becuase he doesnt have to hide anything but around his friends he hides it because he jsut wants to look tough . Dont worry though he wil grow out of this give him time
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