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Hi so I'm 17 years old and my period usually comes around the 28th. Lately my boyfriend and I have been having sex nearly everyday for the past few days. We use condoms every time and when he is about to semen he pulls out of me but goes in the condom. But we did have an incident when he pulled out and didn't clean his penis and put another condom on which we found out was broken so he than put a different one on. But could I be pregnant? Or could my period be late from having a lot of sex? I had cramps and my breasts are sore like I would normally get my period but I just don't have it. Thank you for answering my question!!
Stress, such as worrying as to whether you are pregnant can cause your period to be late or not come at all. If you have taken any medications during the month could cause you to miss your period as well. Stress though is the number 1 cause of a late period.
To reduce the stress over whether you are pregnant I would suggest you take a home pregnancy test. The longer you worry over your period being late the more chance your period will not come or you will be writing us back that you had an abnormal type period could you be pregnant and still have this type of period.
The chances you are pregnant are slim based on your description. If you have an active sex life you should be on birth control pills or other birth control as condoms are only 85% effective in preventing pregnancy.
If your over 14 and live in the USA a law called HIPPA gives you confidentiality in any medical situation regarding your reproductive system This means you can make and see a doctor without parental permission or knowledge for anything regarding your reproductive health. This also means you can ask for and receive birth control medication. None of this medical information can be given to your parents or anyone else without your written permission.
This includes any visit to a doctor should the home pregnancy test be positive. You would then need to see a doctor for a medical test to confirm. You not the doctor would have to tell your parents and then only if you decide to have the baby. No one can force you to have an abortion, this would be your choice. If you choices and abortion your parents would never know unless you tell them.
Take a home pregnancy test. IF it is negative relax. If you are over 14 go see a doctor and get birth control medication. Your sex life sounds to active not to be on birth control. Even on birth control the BF should still use a condom.
(Rating: 5) Thank you! I was actually supposed to start birth control this week but my doctor never called it in and we do use condoms every time :)