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Do you guys honestly think that everyone is destined to meet someone? Especially during a certain time of their life.
I feel like everyone around me has someone or has people in their life they could potentially be with. Whereas me, I don't know anyone who I can see myself with at all. I'm about to be 21 and I can honestly say I've never really been in true love before and Im scared because my life is going to get tougher and more hectic as I continue with school and my career and I'm worried I won't find anyone. I'm also worried that the longer I hold out on finding someone, the more people I could have potentially be with, will find someone else. Sorry for sounding a bit confusing with my thoughts. But what do you think?
In my lifetime I have learned that the longer and harder you try to deal with something, the harder it is going to be to find the answer. Your question fits quite nicely into that thought.
I'm old enough to be your grandfather and I have seen a lot of this type of worry and done a fair bit of it myself. There are times that you just have to relax and let life run its course. Then when you least expect it, wham o the answer smacks you in the face. In your case it most likely will be a beautiful kiss on the cheek that will make your legs grow week.
Your still very young and should be concentrating on school and your career. In today's world a women can have it all. A wonderful career, a husband and family. To get there you need to prioritize. If along the way the write man comes along you adjust. That doesn't mean you give up your goals in life.
Today many women put off marriage and families until they are much older than you. At 21 you are far from an old maid; a term from my grandparents era when a girl if she was not married by 18 was considered an old maid.
My advise is to relax and stop worrying. From what you have written I see nothing wrong with your life. You have goals you want to obtain. Those are good, somewhere along the way you will meet that guy who will make you weak in the knees just by a kiss on the cheek.
(Rating: 5) Thank you! My career and school are my priority in my life right now. And I'm nowhere thinking of marriage. But, I would be happy knowing that there actually IS someone out there waiting for me. That's all. But thank you again for your reassuring words.