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Well I'm in gr7 and the gr11s really don't like me because I used to like a guy in there class. But that was 3 years ago!! Anyway the one girl in there class does modeling with me and she's my role model and I don't think she hates me but the rest do. Next year they initiate us and they all talked about how they going to get me and they will make me suffer and they keep saying I'm a slut and they always skeef me its 3 girls. The one girl(micaela) I dated her brother. I'm really upset tho,don't want to go to school,and I've been crying myself to sleep :( oh and they don't say it to me they say it to other people. I'm a virgin btw. (link)
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You are 100% better than them. You NEED to tell your parents and teachers about this. One of the core things they are looking for is getting a reaction out of you for their sick amusement.
If you can show them that you don't care what they have to say (even if you do) they might find another target and give up on you.
When it comes to bullies they usually are incredibly troubled people and their home life may not be great either. They may be taking frustrations out on others or jealous of talents and other attributes you have that they lack.
I always tell kids having been there with severe bullying that and if the bullying is strictly verbal to consider the source of it as an idiot and their words not true no matter what they say to you or others. The more you do that the more they can't get to you.
If their bullying turns physical tell an adult you trust, defend yourself no matter what, and file charges against them for assault same deal with e-mail, social media, phone calls and that will stop that garbage.
In the meantime you may want to log on to a great anti-bullying site that I stumbled upon LINK: http://www.bullying.org for information, support and tips you can put into use.
But definitely tell adults what is happening to you at school and see if they can handle these brats for you or find a solution where they can monitor the situation and step in.
Adults NEED to know how scared you are to even set foot in school and exactly who threatened you with violence and making you suffer mentally and physically either now or next year and have that person charged by police for utterance.
The definition I have of "skeef" is that people steal from you to piss you off and either give belongings back or keep them. If they are doing that have your parents and the school know what they took even temporarily so they can get them for stealing.
You don't have to put up with this BS. As far as initiation, bullying etc. goes all schools have ZERO tolerance policies so they need to be punished and you have to take a stand against them. Get adults you trust, teachers and counselors behind you.
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By skeef I mean they look at me weirdly or rudely and they just stare at me funny I don't know how to explain it
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