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So basically, I like this guy and he's really shy. When he found out, he used to act all cool and you know act like he liked me. But suddenly, people started saying that he likes me and he stopped talking to me. Then i told him im over him and he started staring and blushing at me alot and I caught him really often. But now my teacher has made me sit with him and he totally ignores me and i feel like he hates me. People say he's embarrassed but maybe he just hates me? Please tell me what you think about this :) (link)
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ASK HIM. Seriously, go directly to him and ask "Is it just me or are you not talking to me for some reason? Did I do something to upset you?" See what he has to say.
Maybe he does like you but being shy just has a hard time admitting it and doesn't know how to talk to you. Let him know you don't bite and if he likes you it's okay. You do too.
With introverts sometimes you need to do this as there is anxiety there. He's probably just scared. You need to break down his defense wall. Also, if you tell someone you're not in to them it pisses them right off (it always will) so maybe he's hurt and or confused now that you have changed your position. You need to talk to him to figure out what he's thinking.
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see, like today he tried talking to me and I tried talking too. But the fact is, even if I try to bring this topic up he just tries to avoid it.He keeps giggling and saying he doesn't like me and trying to talk to him about THIS is realllllyyy difficult.Plus, I get really shy around him and I freeze.However, thank you soo much! Your advice has actually made me see that he can probably like me..and not hate :)
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