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So this is gonna sound really weird but im a girl and I have been masturbating for longer than I can remember. I can remember balling up my blanket at pre school and grinding against it at nap time. I can remember doing it in first grade while thinking about my crush and making up these fantasies in my head like playing doctor. But I was just a little kid!! I can remember finally learning that what I was doing was even called masturbation! The weird part is I've always know to keep it a secret. Before I even knew what it was I never told anyone about it and I knew to only do it when I was alone. I guess what I'm wondering is.. How did I know what this was? How did I learn about feeling horny and pleasure from doing this and thinking about boy and girl encounters before I even knew what sex was? And I knew all of these fantasies without thinking of sex happening in them but just knowing they made me horny. I'm 17 now and I still masturbate on a regular basis. I've never used my fingers I still just rub up against a little piece of balled up blanket. I've never had sex and I don't feel like a nympho or anything like that. Also when I do do this, I reach a sort of climax where it feels really good and then I wanna stop because I'm not horny anymore. This can't be an orgasm right? It's not intense at all it's just kind of like a second or two of pleasure and then I can't get aroused again. Plus it takes me like less than a minute to get there. Any ideas? (link)
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Masturbation is not a sexual thing in childhood. Infants, toddlers, etc generally discover their genitals much like any part of the body on their own and discover that touching these body parts feel good. And that's why you have been doing it all this time.
Everything you describe is normal and typical but people just don't talk about it. Playing doctor and curiosity between sexes as children is normal and typical behavior.
As you became older as an adolescent and learned what you were doing could also be for sexual reasons you made that association we all do with it.
It's controversial belief but a lot of people in society are waking up to the fact that we are born with some knowledge of sexuality which might explain how you arrived eventually at all the pleasurable feelings mentioned.
As for methods you aren't doing anything that isn't considered normal. Sometimes too much stimulation of a sensitive area leads to the feeling of too much intense and that's just your threshold. But yes, this is all normal and not to worry about.
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Thanks!!!! So what happens IS an orgasm then...? Cause it's really not that special... Haha
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