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my guy friend wants to have sex with me but i do not bcause we are friends and i dont anything bad to happen what can i do oh and we have made out alot help please!!!!!!!!
solidadvice4teens is right in what she has said. I will put it another way.
First and foremost for sex to happen both parties must be consenting. If one party says no, that's it end of conversation. For the other party to continue to pressure or cajole the dissenting party into having sex with them. It is sexual harassment. If the dissenting party gives in to the pressure it is not consent it is rape.
Tell this to your guy friend for this is what he needs to learn. NO means NO and that is the end of the conversation. Continuing to pressure someone further can and could cause him a great deal of legal problems even as an underage teenager.
Sexual harassment has no age barriers within the law. Teenagers and adult are subject to the same laws when it comes to crimes of a sexual nature. The sooner young men learn of this the better.
An infamous line for young teenage boys to their girlfriends is; "If you love me you'll have sex with me." Wrong, sex is not in this instance the right way to show your love for someone. If ever a boy says something like that to you, he does not love you, he lusts for you. Teenage boys confuse lust and love. They believe lust and love are the same thing. It a hormonal reaction for them.
One other thing. Not knowing your age I will just add that you are correct in what you said about sex between friends. Sex between friends is a very good way to ruin a friendship. Something to remember as you go through life. It is not always the rule but generally speaking once you cross that line you can never go back.
(Rating: 5) thank you! thanks makes SO much sense now!!