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Gender: Female
Location: North Carolina, USA
Occupation: High School student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 22, 2012
Answers: 10
Last Update: February 24, 2013
Visitors: 1156


Hey, 17/f

Basically I have a bit of a problem with talking to the opposite sex. You see, a relationship two years ago (over in 5 months) only came about because I talked to a guy, and he took it as me leading him on abit.
So now, I cant really have a conversation in class with any guy because I'm worried they'll think I fancy them. So basically in class I ignore the guys and talk to the girls. However, this cant continue as I'll be in a v.male class next year and they'll think I'm odd.

So How do you talk to guys without them thinking you fancy them?!
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Talk to them like you would talk to a girl. Not exactly exactly like that, but the same general pattern. Start up a conversation about how hard or easy the assignment was. Something simple like that. Don't overdo it either. Also try to be aware of your tone. I know that sometimes I start talking with alternating pitches and saying more cutsey stuff (which can be perceived as flirting) to a gu

And hun, don't get caught up in something that happened a while back. That might have been just him and his thinking.


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