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Hey, this guy really liked me for a couple months and i didnt find out til a month ago. When i did all his friends starting flirting with me and wanting me for themselves. Then i got into a fight with this popular girl ( im one of them ) and shes trying to make them ask me out and dump me so that i come crying to her to say sorry. Now shes making the guy i like ( the guy that rly liked me) to ask me out as a joke and dump me after a while and I dont think he was okay with it but, shes gonna make him miserable if he doesnt do it. Another thing is that i think he might be ashamed to go out with me sinceshe hates me now and is trying to make my life a living hell. What do i do? and should I say yes when he asks me out and dump him b4 he dumps me? and I dont want to talk to him about this because hes just going to make something up so i got a couple of my friends to talk to him tomorrow maybe. What should I do? (link)
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NOBODY can make anyone do ANYTHING they don't want to. She can suggest this nonsense to him but HE has to have the brains (hopefully) and make the decision against/for for himself.
Hopefully, this guy isn't a total idiot and can see the drama she wants to create a mile away and wants NOTHING of it. It would seem the fight is over jealousy and perhaps wanting something she can't get that you would have.
Here's what I would do. Talk to a teacher or better yet a guidance counselor. Tell them the girl is harassing you and over what exactly. Tell them that she's had endless amount of guys asking you out as a joke and threatens to embarrass you if you accept this particular person's request. Tell the guidance counselor you just want to be left alone period by her and her friends.
If they can have you talk it out or just get her to stop by threatening trouble she may think twice about her behavior. You NEED one way or the other to stand up to her and show her you can't be screwed with.
The best thing is to just ignore all the nonsense 'til they get bored which they will when they see you don't care what they do anymore.
If anyone asks you out tomorrow or in the future just tell them "I'm seeing someone right now" or "I'm not interested in you." or something to that effect. If this guy you like asks tell him "Let's be friends" Then you can see if a friendship happens as over time you would know if he's for real or not as he won't stick around otherwise. That's how you save yourself grief.
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