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Okay so i've been through a few bad relationships,
my most importand 3 relationships:
1. Dated 3 yrs ended with minipulation,. Controlling,. Made me believe what he said was right and in the end borrowed alot of money from me (in the ten thousands) and never paid me back plus racked up a credit card.
2. was seeing him not dating for 2 weeks and he said wasn't ready for a relationship and half a week later was dating someone a few towns away.
3. dated for a couple months got me pregnent,. left me to a different city.
Anyway my question is this!
I don't understand why i dont have feelings for anyone at all! Is my love emotions gone?
There are a few great guys who like me..
But i just don't feel any love connection to anyone..
Its been 2 years and I have only had a crush on one person..
Will i ever get my love crush feelings back for anyone or am i broken? PLEASE HELP ME! How do i open up to be able to love again (link)
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I'm sorry you've had such a long history of bad relationships and break-ups, but from what you say, the fault lies with the guys, not you!
You're now programmed to expect problems in a relationship, you've lost the ability to trust people, especially guys. No surorise there!
Stop looking at guys as objects of love and accept them as friends, get used to trusting them and gradually move on to thinking of them as more than friends. (Maybe this is how we learn to love people as we grow up.)
Hope this helps, let me know how you get on? Good luck.
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I've never thought of it that way before. But now that you say it that way it defintely makes sense, Thank you so much!!
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