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Hi, I am 24 and love one girl I want to marry her but my parents are not allowing us to do. We were in the relationship from more than two years but we never did Sex she want a promise from my side but I cannot give a promise to her because I cannot leave my parents too. and according to me I prefer family first. I told her everything about us and now we are not in the relationship and she value my decision but I really miss her a lot, I tried to forget her but not any other girl is taking her position in my mind.
Please advice me am I on the right direction or not should I forget her and give a priority to my parents or should I accept her after leaving my parents, This is not possible that my parents will agree with this relationship. (link)
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Ok, well I think that you NEED to make a descision, who can you not live without, your parents or her? If the answer is her:
You should talk to your parents about her and this whole thing, share the good things about the girl, and how much you love her. And tell them you love them, but this is your life and you need to live it. And that you will ALWAYS love them and they will ALWAYS be welcome with you. But that you are in love, and that as a grown man you need to do this.
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Because this is going to decide your life, I hate to say it because I don't like being harsh...but your parents will be dead one day, and if you let this girl go, and then when they die, you will forever regret letting her go. Because you won't have anyone.
If the answer is your parents:
Tell the girl that you love your parents, and that you love her too, and that you want to stay in touch with her because she is the light of your life. And NO ONE PERSON could ever replace her.
I understand this will cause you TONS of pain. If you need to talk, email me at my advice email: diana222@gmail.com . I really hope everything goes well for you.
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