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Hello ladies! I've been reading some stories about miscarriages and finding out at the first ultra sound the baby isn't viable. My husband and I are so excited for this baby. Our first ultra sound is Dec 19th and these stories are starting to get me worked up. What if my baby isn't developing, what if this or that. I do have menstrual like cramps and i've been told thats the uterus growing and it's pretty frequent so does that mean the baby is still at least growing? Sorry i'm a first time mom and quite scared about everything! (link)
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It's understandable that you're scared having never experienced pregnancy before. I think you're doing yourself a real disservice by reading those stories and letting it enter your thinking and consume your thoughts. Yes, those things happen, but rarely and won't with you.
When it comes to this or anything medical if you thin what if this, that, or the other thing is wrong instead of dealing with what is or being in the now will work you up so much when nothing was. Try to relax. I'm sure it's all fine and you'll see it at the ultrasound.
Who told you about the cramps though? If a doctor explained that to you I wouldn't worry but if it really is bothering you call your ob/gyn and tell him/her what's going on so you can be at ease.
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