My column is supposed to be a place where people can feel free to write down what's been bugging them, things that they really need help with. It's an open and free site, where no one should be discriminated or made fun of. Now I know I may be young, but you will find that I can be very objective, but also emotionally able to put myself in your position and to help in every way possible!
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Age: 15
Member Since: January 28, 2011
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I really liked this guy in the summer and i regret not taking all my chances with him as in kiss. well no its what feburary and weve just grown apart we never dated we just had a group in the summer and we went to the same school but just last week he transferred and all i do now is think which i have been doing... i have asked questions about him before getting over him and i gave it time its just not working..his school is kinda local but ill probally wont see him for a while unless the group gets togther and he shows up for once. well i dont know its like i go through what i could have done everyday in my head and what if he were still here in my class what i would be saying... because now ive become a little more open to guys but im still the awkward shyness kinda person. I have a school dance coming up and before he transferred i asked him the next week he told me he was transferring and everything just stressing at the moment and how he would like to go with me but hes leaving the school and he said maybe some other dance you would be a really fun date. well now i have asked my good guy friend who goes to a diffrent school and im going with him (he was from the group also) but he doesnt like the guy i cant stop thinking about.and i just feel like i onyl want to be with the guy ive liked for too long i just dont feel like i belong anymore like at all... i dont know what to do ive gave it time and ive tried so hard its just im not happy and whatever please help sorry this is long :/ i just want to get the best answer oh and its still awkward so im not the kinda person who says stuff straight up i just think too much. (link)
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Who says you can only see him when your group meets??? Tell me, who says that?! You can meet with him, only him, anytime..weekends and holidays! Let me tell you, my boyfriend is moving to HOLLAND! Yes, HOLLAND so I will literally never see him again!! I understand how you feel. You've tried getting over him, you've tried focusing on other people like your best guy friend but it just stresses you out more, and just makes you think of the guy more...and I understand that you look back and you wish you had done something, anything, you wish you had kissed him...but you shouldn't be hung up on the past..focus on the future and the present, that's whats in front of you! And you've tried to forget him but you can't...honey there's only one thing you can do: You gotta be with him! Ask him out, be in a relationship, make it work!! You've got to want it, and then it will happen!!
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Thanks! Like I dot know its kinda creepy I sometimes have dreams about him but that's because I allways have amazing weird dreams... It's just it's kinda awkward I guess between us.. Like I can't just ask him straight up it wouldn't be right I don't know I'll figure something out!
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