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17/f Me & my bf have been in a relationship for about 3 years. My bf has cheated like 3 times since we have actually gotten together (june 10) this next newest time : Since my boyfriend went to go hang out with his ex and not tell me we've been having problems. I told him some really mean things so then he stoped feeling bad about what he did and started being an asshole saying he was going to move back to texas where he's from so I stoped being mad about what he did so we could just be happy. weve just been having problems now & today bc I wouldn't just "suck his dick" hes mad and needs to smoke so I write him a check to go get money to smoke & hes still being mean & hes like he can't wait to leave, im sucha lame bitch , that he hates me, fuck me, & I just sit there cause idk what to say, i say I don't deserve that but it just hurts & i start to cry so I go upstairs & hes like thanks for doing NOTHING, but I just don't know what to do , I don't wanna not be together & him leave, but I know that he keeps hurting me and I don't deserve that, I just don't want to make the wrong choice & i know only I can make the right one . I just need some unbiased advice ?! (link)
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You are absolutely right! You do not deserve this!!! It's that one part of you, that loves being in a relationship, that loves love, that's the part that's holding you back! And as frustrated as you might think you are, you already know what you need do to and all you're looking for here is for people to tell you to do what you already know you should do so that you can feel better about yourself when you finally do it. So I will tell you, that he's not worth it. But the choice is yours, I can't make it for you. You're in pain. The decision isn't hard, it's painful. You already know what to do, otherwise you wouldn't be in so much pain!
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