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Q: okay so ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and i always think about sex but im scared that if i lose my virginity before marriage then i will go to hell.. is that true? btw im roman catholic
From a non-religious stand-point: whether or not you have sex is entirely up to you. But don't just do it just because you want to. You will regret it then. You'll know when the right time is when it begins to happen, and you have utterly no hesitations whatsoever with who you're with. No, you will not go to hell. Otherwise, there would be a LOT of people going. If you believe that it's the right time, then it is the right time.
Going religious here: God watches over each person, correct? So if he allows you to have sex and you had no hesitations and you felt really good about having it WITH THE RIGHT PERSON, then there would be no reason for him to fault you.

thanks that helped alott :)

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