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I am a 26 year old black male and I've been married for almost 2 years. My wife has 3 kids. I love our children but I don't have any biological children and we can't have kids together because she has had an hysterectomy. I take care of my house hole, wife and kids. My wife is a stay home mom. She gets every thing she wants and need. All I want is a biological child. We can't afford a surrogate mother and last night she told me that I can sleep with another woman so I can have a child. What should I do and where can I find a woman just for that reason? (link)
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Since they killed the erotic services section of Craigslist I really don't know where to send you.
I will say that having a kid with some random woman could easily be handing her 18 years of child support payments or a joint custody arrangement when she attaches and doesn't want to let go.
What the hell is going on in your marriage that you feel the need to knock something up and your wife says you should just knock up someone else? This is not normal rational behavior or thinking.
I'm married. I'm your age. My wife and I are waiting until school ends, and we're both more than capable. It's not easy, but that's what adults do. They wait, when waiting, saving, and planning are better than doing something really fucking stupid so you can feel like a father because hormones say it's time.
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