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Hi, I am 18f and I have a boyfriend the same age. He has one type of music that is his favorite, which is metal... and so that is all he listens to. My dilemma is that I don't really like metal (I can listen to it, but I don't care for it) and the music I listen to (pop,rock,country,almost anything but metal ironically), he doesn't really like. How can we make it so that we both like eachothers kind of music so that we are both happy in a vehicle or at a party? I would really love for him to listen to some of my music that has good lyrics, soul, and a catchy beat rather than head banging stuff all the time, you know? Cuz I believe we could connect on another level if we have music that sets the mood for both of us (hard to have a romatic setting with metal music). I do know that if you play your music alot, the other person may eventually like it too... but any other ideas would be appreciated, thanks!
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Personally I'd break up with him, anyone who picks one specific genre of music to hold above all others as the "best" and will only enjoy that type of music has no taste or sense. Plus like half of what comprises Metal isn't even passably decent music and the only decent metal in the last five years came from Cartoon Network.
You can't change an idiot, but you can hope he grows out of it. Have fun waiting for him to grow up and hoping, cause not everyone does.
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I don't think it is right to break up with a guy if his only fault is the music he listens to. He is an amazing, mature, loving boyfriend. I agree that metal is very "blah", but he truly would sacrifice his music for me anyday. So, I know we will find music that is right for both of us.
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